I am truly not trying to be antagonistic. Having said that there are a few observations I have noticed the last while reading posts, and I am curious, is it my preception or am I reading into something that doesn't exist.
1. Payors of CS or SS seem to have bad luck with employment and incomes seem to be reduced on a pretty consistent basis. I have yet to read a post where an income has increased and CS or SS has been effected.
2. Very few Step-Dads are posing questions on behalf of his new partner or seem to have issues with the Bio-Dad where it seems Step-Moms seem to be doing a lot of investigating on behalf of their new partner and have many issues with the Bio-Mom.
3. The word OUR or WE when referring to the lawyer or situation as in, "We went to court, and "we told our lawyer" when in reality isn't the divorce between the man and his x? Isn't the we the divorcing people?
My x has a new partner and I also have a new partner and although I am sure, "she" has what to say about my SS, "she" was not part of WE, when We went to arbitration. When We went to arbitration the We was my x and I, and more so my new partner is an amazing man who is loving and supportive and not part of the We in the divorce but very much part of We as in a couple, embracing and living life together.
Although my divorce was and is an ugly one, I am very grateful that she is not a part of any of it. What my x and his partner discuss or decide is their business but she did not show up for Case Conference nor arbitration.
My lawyer's Legal Clerk did tell me that the 2nd partners usually have a very difficult time with the 1st wife and are very resentful ( especially when their is a large SS order) and many of my lawyer's cases are 2nd divorces because of this.
It sorta makes me giggle to think, what a win win for me. I get the $$ and SHE gets him to be her new WE.
Warning: How he treats her, the x, is exactly how is going to treat you and be prepared for his new partner treating you and viewing you as you view her!! The best prediction of your future is viewing his past.
1. Payors of CS or SS seem to have bad luck with employment and incomes seem to be reduced on a pretty consistent basis. I have yet to read a post where an income has increased and CS or SS has been effected.
2. Very few Step-Dads are posing questions on behalf of his new partner or seem to have issues with the Bio-Dad where it seems Step-Moms seem to be doing a lot of investigating on behalf of their new partner and have many issues with the Bio-Mom.
3. The word OUR or WE when referring to the lawyer or situation as in, "We went to court, and "we told our lawyer" when in reality isn't the divorce between the man and his x? Isn't the we the divorcing people?
My x has a new partner and I also have a new partner and although I am sure, "she" has what to say about my SS, "she" was not part of WE, when We went to arbitration. When We went to arbitration the We was my x and I, and more so my new partner is an amazing man who is loving and supportive and not part of the We in the divorce but very much part of We as in a couple, embracing and living life together.
Although my divorce was and is an ugly one, I am very grateful that she is not a part of any of it. What my x and his partner discuss or decide is their business but she did not show up for Case Conference nor arbitration.
My lawyer's Legal Clerk did tell me that the 2nd partners usually have a very difficult time with the 1st wife and are very resentful ( especially when their is a large SS order) and many of my lawyer's cases are 2nd divorces because of this.
It sorta makes me giggle to think, what a win win for me. I get the $$ and SHE gets him to be her new WE.
Warning: How he treats her, the x, is exactly how is going to treat you and be prepared for his new partner treating you and viewing you as you view her!! The best prediction of your future is viewing his past.
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