My 5 year old spent this last weekend with her father as per our arrangement. Lastnight when I picked her up she informed me that her dad took her somewhere at night near the water and they met another man in his car and both of them had their windows down and were fighting and screaming and swearing back and forth at one another, then dad zoomed away.
He's a seriously angry guy. I know he smokes pot too, I suspect he might be selling it again but of course don't know this for sure and cannot prove it.
What does one do in this situation? I haven't bothered to bring it up to him as he would just deny it and then yell at her for it later. He's often doing and saying inappropriate things and it really messes her up. She actually begins sessions with a child psychologist tomorrow so that we can get a handle on some of the anger she displays after her weekends with him. I know I can't just not send her to him, so is there anything I can do?
He's a seriously angry guy. I know he smokes pot too, I suspect he might be selling it again but of course don't know this for sure and cannot prove it.
What does one do in this situation? I haven't bothered to bring it up to him as he would just deny it and then yell at her for it later. He's often doing and saying inappropriate things and it really messes her up. She actually begins sessions with a child psychologist tomorrow so that we can get a handle on some of the anger she displays after her weekends with him. I know I can't just not send her to him, so is there anything I can do?
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