Just trying to figure out what can be done.
My boyfriend and his ex has a son whom they share half the time. He pays his full child support (even though they have the child half the time each). He had some paperwork sent to him from her lawyer; in this paperwork she had mentioned only a little about custody of the child (when i say a little i mean pretty much one sentence) the rest of her paperwork stated everything she wanted from alimony (they lived together for almost 3 years and she ended up having an affair-they were never married jsut had a child together), she wanted money for the days that he drops his son off so he can go to work (he drops him off 2 days/week) she doesn't work jsut sits at home lives off the gov't and his CS...so she asked for daycare costs for staying home watching their child.....she wants t go after him for half the house (he wanted to sell the house but if he sold it he would be in the hole if anything-nothing would be made from the house). To make this story short he sent her lawyer paperwork with everythign he wanted with his daugher minus all the money garbage except for the child support she deserves. He is an amazing dad-even my kids look to him as their dad). Well after seeing the paperwork she kept saying she wanted $8000.00 dollars and she would settle everything. Trying to figure out why she wants this moeny cause if anything she left him with debt to pay, stuck with the house he is trying to pay on his own...oh yeah and he paid her first and last for a new place for her. He said he ruefuses to pay for it cause that money would work out to the debt and she says if he don't pay she will go after him for alimony...I am trying to figure out if it is even worth it to fight or to just say here is the money...
It is hard being the one looking in on this cause i am a single mom and i have made it by with my own and raised my kids pretty much on my own with no help...never went after the ex for alimony or anything and I just try to figure out how some women can do this.
Can anyone give me advice on this? Can he do anything about it or is he left paying the $8000 and then the $1000/month for child support? Oh yeah and can she go after him for daycare costs since she is watching her own child while he works? (who comes up with this kind of stuff-really???)
It just bothers me seeing her living at home on mothers allowance and then on top of it receiving a grand from him!!!!!
My boyfriend and his ex has a son whom they share half the time. He pays his full child support (even though they have the child half the time each). He had some paperwork sent to him from her lawyer; in this paperwork she had mentioned only a little about custody of the child (when i say a little i mean pretty much one sentence) the rest of her paperwork stated everything she wanted from alimony (they lived together for almost 3 years and she ended up having an affair-they were never married jsut had a child together), she wanted money for the days that he drops his son off so he can go to work (he drops him off 2 days/week) she doesn't work jsut sits at home lives off the gov't and his CS...so she asked for daycare costs for staying home watching their child.....she wants t go after him for half the house (he wanted to sell the house but if he sold it he would be in the hole if anything-nothing would be made from the house). To make this story short he sent her lawyer paperwork with everythign he wanted with his daugher minus all the money garbage except for the child support she deserves. He is an amazing dad-even my kids look to him as their dad). Well after seeing the paperwork she kept saying she wanted $8000.00 dollars and she would settle everything. Trying to figure out why she wants this moeny cause if anything she left him with debt to pay, stuck with the house he is trying to pay on his own...oh yeah and he paid her first and last for a new place for her. He said he ruefuses to pay for it cause that money would work out to the debt and she says if he don't pay she will go after him for alimony...I am trying to figure out if it is even worth it to fight or to just say here is the money...
It is hard being the one looking in on this cause i am a single mom and i have made it by with my own and raised my kids pretty much on my own with no help...never went after the ex for alimony or anything and I just try to figure out how some women can do this.
Can anyone give me advice on this? Can he do anything about it or is he left paying the $8000 and then the $1000/month for child support? Oh yeah and can she go after him for daycare costs since she is watching her own child while he works? (who comes up with this kind of stuff-really???)
It just bothers me seeing her living at home on mothers allowance and then on top of it receiving a grand from him!!!!!
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