Briefly:
1. The father of the child claims he lives 100 KM away from the child's primary residence, hence, cannot take the child to his home
2. Brought a motion against me accusing not giving him a child and that I am terrible mother that wanted to force him to drive over 100km the child for 1 hr visitation. (Never happened and I will demand to provide that proof)
3. Began to exercise his visitation time with child just to look good in front of judge.
4. I have always felt that he followed me. Police wouldn't believe me. Even though it happened on 2 occasions when I cought my ex and they knew about that.
5. Today I found out accidentally that he lives and has always lived since the day of separation just 5 minutes away from my home. He hides that information and insists he lives too far
Question: I am scared that he lives way too close, because I know he is not stable in his head? When I provide the proof to the judge and I say how genuinely I am scarred of him, which I am. What are the chances for me to get a protection from court?
Backstory: I believed him that he lived over 100 KM. But when he began his visitation time, he did not drive. Acted super strangely and acted like if he wanted to see if someone follows him. Hard to describe what was seen what led me to believe, he hides something he does not want me to find out.
This is how I ended up hiring a private investigator. Because if he leaves with child tomorrow, I need to know that the child is safe.
Private investigator told me my ex uses a friend's car and his insurance and has nothing under his name. So tomorrow when he again disappears and continue not paying a child support, he won't be found. Or, if he takes the child and he lies about his address information and I have no car Information (it would not be so important if he would not hide about his address and was honest), where am I gonna look for a child if he is not back?
1. The father of the child claims he lives 100 KM away from the child's primary residence, hence, cannot take the child to his home
2. Brought a motion against me accusing not giving him a child and that I am terrible mother that wanted to force him to drive over 100km the child for 1 hr visitation. (Never happened and I will demand to provide that proof)
3. Began to exercise his visitation time with child just to look good in front of judge.
4. I have always felt that he followed me. Police wouldn't believe me. Even though it happened on 2 occasions when I cought my ex and they knew about that.
5. Today I found out accidentally that he lives and has always lived since the day of separation just 5 minutes away from my home. He hides that information and insists he lives too far
Question: I am scared that he lives way too close, because I know he is not stable in his head? When I provide the proof to the judge and I say how genuinely I am scarred of him, which I am. What are the chances for me to get a protection from court?
Backstory: I believed him that he lived over 100 KM. But when he began his visitation time, he did not drive. Acted super strangely and acted like if he wanted to see if someone follows him. Hard to describe what was seen what led me to believe, he hides something he does not want me to find out.
This is how I ended up hiring a private investigator. Because if he leaves with child tomorrow, I need to know that the child is safe.
Private investigator told me my ex uses a friend's car and his insurance and has nothing under his name. So tomorrow when he again disappears and continue not paying a child support, he won't be found. Or, if he takes the child and he lies about his address information and I have no car Information (it would not be so important if he would not hide about his address and was honest), where am I gonna look for a child if he is not back?
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