Well, ya know, this word tends to come up so much in seperation/divorce situations on this board, I believe it warrents some attention.
You hear all to often ... Its your fault that ..., If you would have just did ...
One spouse pitting the blame square on the shoulders of another spouse. Hmm, interesting aint it.
So what is blame and why do we blame others for our problems and not ourselves? How destructive is blame to a relationship? What can be done to turn it around to be more constructive rather than destructive?
Blame is blind ...
Blame keeps us stuck ...
Blame is unjustified ...
Blame hurts ...
Blame jeopardizes ...
Hubby
You hear all to often ... Its your fault that ..., If you would have just did ...
One spouse pitting the blame square on the shoulders of another spouse. Hmm, interesting aint it.
So what is blame and why do we blame others for our problems and not ourselves? How destructive is blame to a relationship? What can be done to turn it around to be more constructive rather than destructive?
Blame is blind ...
Blame keeps us stuck ...
Blame is unjustified ...
Blame hurts ...
Blame jeopardizes ...
Hubby
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