Originally posted by standing on the sidelines
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Look, just for the record, I did not respond to all these "you are crazy" kind of accusations, other than to make fun, because I find them silly and unproductive. But I resent them. I'm not at all ready to go over any edge, not even close. I found out about this mid Jaunuary. Had I had any urge to go over the edge, I would have done it. If I wanted to go over at his house and confrunt him, I could do it anytime, but I don't. I don't want to see him, I don't want to talk to him. I want to let her know, if possible, without any face-to-face interaction. How is this "jumping over the edge" ? And this whole thing with "doing something crazy" and "hurting someone" ? It's just crazy. I'm sorry if I offended you, I looked for an other way to put it, but could not find one. Don't meen to say you are krazy, I don't think you are, but this talk kind of is.
You are again jumping to conclusions. I'm not at all more focused on him, I'm working this out with my wife. But this is a private thing, I'm not going to ask any questions about how to do that on this board. Also, there are no legal issues between me and my wife, and until we separate, if we do, there won't be any, so why would I even bring this up here ? All I'm looking for is some legal advice.
I do not want to get any revenge on my wife, by the way. She put us in this situation, we are working on it, and that's it. He put us in this situation, let him be in a similar one, and work on it too. Ever heard of the "eye for an eye" ? It's as simple as that.
Let me ask you something: you say your husband cheated on you. If you had the chance to not find out, would you have taken it ? I'm just asking out of curiosity. My wife says she would not want to find out if I did, and I'm the other way around: I wanted to find out.
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