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Old 05-20-2019, 07:42 PM
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Rockscan. Lol. Thanx
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Old 05-20-2019, 09:34 PM
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What, specifically, were you served with? You say you received a Notice of Service.... but of what?
Are you currently receiving support from your ex through maintenance enforcement?
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Old 05-20-2019, 09:40 PM
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I know it is very stressful but the best is to ignore and not engage yourself in any communication as this will lead to more nonsense
Lawyers use intimidation, bullying and scare tactics all the time.

In my case, I remember my ex's lawyer sending me incredibly threatening that would terrify me, leave me in tears and stressed out of my mind.
I did figure out how to make it stop and we settled but that's another story.

Try to ignore and stay cool as a cucumber!
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Old 05-21-2019, 03:43 AM
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What, specifically, were you served with? You say you received a Notice of Service.... but of what?
Are you currently receiving support from your ex through maintenance enforcement?

I was served with a Family Law Application, his affidavit with some really incredible nonsense, a proof of service which I was to sign and return (ah, no) and a letter to his MEPS - all by email. They have now all been blocked.
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Old 05-21-2019, 07:28 AM
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This is the process that your ex must follow:

https://www.canlii.org/en/ab/laws/st...2-c-i-3.5.html

Scroll down to "support application"

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Old 05-21-2019, 02:04 PM
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He has also had two new partners that is no longer with him. MEPS told me one was supporting him. Why is he not going after them for money is beyond me.
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Old 05-21-2019, 02:20 PM
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I would be inclined to respond back to his lawyer and ask-

"I may have missed this- but could you please tell me what section of the family law rules allow you to serve me by email without my consent?"
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Old 05-21-2019, 02:27 PM
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I did and she told me that email is accepted in all Canadian jurisdiction; however, I know in Nova Scotia it is not unless you have an Order for Substitute of Service and even then it is questionable.

At no time, do you have to fill out a paper saying you have been served.
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Old 05-21-2019, 10:05 PM
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Now, his lawyer, who is obviously not that bright, mailed it to me. I checked the Alberta web page and that isn't considered personal service so I am sending it back. So now it will probably come by registered mail which I will not be picking up. He is in Alberta and I am in Nova Scotia. I feel like they are trying to shove something down my throat.


I am done with this. I guess if this lawyer that is abusing me because he is giving the instruction gets an Order, I will get three certified copies and try to have it changed in Nova Scotia.


The divorce was finalized here and I don't understand how this woman can do this but whatever - I am done with it because it isn't worth the stress and I have a much better life away from him and his threats.
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Old 05-21-2019, 10:30 PM
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His lawyer is being paid by him to do this. It may not be right but he is taking the chance. Its no different than Arabians ex filing a motion every year to stop payment. Even when he was told no several times.
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