Ew ya I would say the 4 way between you guys and your partners is wildly inappropriate in the middle of litigation. Tell him to hit the road.
The only time that would be appropriate would be once all matters are settled, everyone respects each other, and you know everyone is focused on the child’s best interests. Like you all decide to take child out for a birthday dinner together. But only if everyone gets along and genuinely wants to.
My partner settled all matters with his ex 2 years ago and I would NEVER imagine asking for all of us to meet up to discuss things. Not my business. Although things are improving. She is now ok with me coming to pick up their daughter without him, and we actually had a short polite conversation at the last exchange.
The only time that would be appropriate would be once all matters are settled, everyone respects each other, and you know everyone is focused on the child’s best interests. Like you all decide to take child out for a birthday dinner together. But only if everyone gets along and genuinely wants to.
My partner settled all matters with his ex 2 years ago and I would NEVER imagine asking for all of us to meet up to discuss things. Not my business. Although things are improving. She is now ok with me coming to pick up their daughter without him, and we actually had a short polite conversation at the last exchange.
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