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  • #16
    Originally posted by dinkyface View Post
    Er, that's because they are not using this forum - they don't need it.

    Your statement is like someone going to a hospital and stating that the people there are sicker than the average population.
    ^^This, total agreeance.

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    • #17
      Well, my CS has only ever increased. But there's not much need to discuss that with the forum because no one says no to extra money so it's rarely a legal issue to give it to them.

      When my SS was due to end it was a very stressful time, not knowing what the ex was going to do. In the end, she decided re-opening the issue after she had had her entitlement wasn't worth it. More specifically, she said that "I" wasn't worth the effort, lol.

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      • #18
        You sound very resentful and bitter towards the new "we".

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        • #19
          Originally posted by Tayken View Post
          I often lament about how people write about "my children" versus "our children". The courts have become very sensitive to this wording. "My children" in a society that is rapidly moving towards joint custody and equal access will soon be a thing of the past (fingers crossed).
          The same odd dynamic is observable in seemingly happily married couples or what I sardonically label pre-divorced couples.

          Originally posted by Tayken View Post
          A lot of what you are observing as well is related to other factors that we really can't delve into but, I think play a major part your above 3 observations.

          Emotional maturity; and
          Level of education
          I think it is more than that. I have a much less uplifting perspective on what this WE issue reflects.

          Some people marry without any true intention for the relationship to last --- even though they pretend otherwise.
          and
          Some people marry for money --- perish the thought!

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