Since my ex left with the kids back in October and started to claim domestic abuse (never any charges or restraining orders or anything really, just a few very heated arguments). I have not known where my kids are when they are with my ex. She refuses to tell me, and has said I will need to get a court order for her to disclose that information. I have given her letters from my doctors that state that I am not a risk to her or the kids in anyway (she has had those since November).
The other, and relatively other minor, issues are that she she sometimes takes our kids over to a friends house overnight (sometimes on school nights) to look after her friends kids while her friend works, and she also hires a baby sitter for the kids when she is not available to look after the kids (sometimes even for whole days on the weekends) and does not ask if I'm available, or give me the chance to look after them.
We have no SA all we have is a very basic Temporary order from the case conference.
Every time I try to broach one of these topics she accuses me of trying to force her to do something or claim that I am trying to increase my access past what I'm "entitled" to.
How should I deal with these situations?
The other, and relatively other minor, issues are that she she sometimes takes our kids over to a friends house overnight (sometimes on school nights) to look after her friends kids while her friend works, and she also hires a baby sitter for the kids when she is not available to look after the kids (sometimes even for whole days on the weekends) and does not ask if I'm available, or give me the chance to look after them.
We have no SA all we have is a very basic Temporary order from the case conference.
Every time I try to broach one of these topics she accuses me of trying to force her to do something or claim that I am trying to increase my access past what I'm "entitled" to.
How should I deal with these situations?
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