So my ex had me served on the holiday today.
He wants sole custody of the 2 oldest (15 & 16) and the 2 youngest to stay with me (12 & 13).
CS changes of course - he is asking to base his on an income of $13800/year
I haven't really dived through all the papers yet as it's book thick - but should I have not been given blank forms?
I won't stop the 2 oldest from moving in with him if anyone is going to bother suggesting that; I'm just feeling pretty... lost right now considering the long history of things.
He has only bothered to see the 4 kids 2 times in the last 11 months. He has visitation every 2nd Sunday from 9am to 7pm, but has not been exercising that - he refused to accept anything more than that so that's what was put in the final custody order back in 2009.
His soon to be wife was convicted of assault with a weapon back in June 2008 for her violent incident that involved our then 8 yr old son. The final custody order bars her from being alone with the kids until they are 18.
I could use whatever advice anyone can offer on what I should do for the court day that is scheduled for May 31.
Also, what happens at the MIP?? That was with the papers as well & is scheduled for May 5th - this was not something that we had back when we were dealing with the custody for the kids previously - anyone have experience with this?
He wants sole custody of the 2 oldest (15 & 16) and the 2 youngest to stay with me (12 & 13).
CS changes of course - he is asking to base his on an income of $13800/year
I haven't really dived through all the papers yet as it's book thick - but should I have not been given blank forms?
I won't stop the 2 oldest from moving in with him if anyone is going to bother suggesting that; I'm just feeling pretty... lost right now considering the long history of things.
He has only bothered to see the 4 kids 2 times in the last 11 months. He has visitation every 2nd Sunday from 9am to 7pm, but has not been exercising that - he refused to accept anything more than that so that's what was put in the final custody order back in 2009.
His soon to be wife was convicted of assault with a weapon back in June 2008 for her violent incident that involved our then 8 yr old son. The final custody order bars her from being alone with the kids until they are 18.
I could use whatever advice anyone can offer on what I should do for the court day that is scheduled for May 31.
Also, what happens at the MIP?? That was with the papers as well & is scheduled for May 5th - this was not something that we had back when we were dealing with the custody for the kids previously - anyone have experience with this?
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