Yes, I am just venting so here goes
So NCP picks up their child two weeks ago and is noified by CP that D10 has a girl guide function during his next access weekend. The date is revealed & luckily enough the NCP doesn't already have plans with his D10. CP says that she will pass on more details when they come available.
Yesterday he arrives at CP home to pick up D10 and still isn't given any information. He is told she will text him with it later. He is informed that CP will be attending the event as well. She says she has to bring her uniform.
First of all, I find it hard to believe that the CP didn't know well in advance about the funtion. The function is a race that the girl guides are volounteering at to obtain a badge.
Secondly, CP knows that the weekend of the function is the NCP's birthday so it would be assumed that there would be plans to celebrate especially since the D10 is going to be with him for his access. What if he wasn't able to take D10?
Thirdly, why does the CP insist on inserting herself in the day by claiming she has to bring the D10's uniform. She could have just sent it with the NCP when he picked up the child yesterday. She already gets to participate 26 days a month in all of the other activities D10 is enrolled in. Why can't she just let NCP have his time without CP?
They are about to have their first appearance in court next week. NCP is asking for more time. You would think she would be more cooperative with court looming.
Why is it that most CP can't respect the relationship between their kids and the NCP?
So NCP picks up their child two weeks ago and is noified by CP that D10 has a girl guide function during his next access weekend. The date is revealed & luckily enough the NCP doesn't already have plans with his D10. CP says that she will pass on more details when they come available.
Yesterday he arrives at CP home to pick up D10 and still isn't given any information. He is told she will text him with it later. He is informed that CP will be attending the event as well. She says she has to bring her uniform.
First of all, I find it hard to believe that the CP didn't know well in advance about the funtion. The function is a race that the girl guides are volounteering at to obtain a badge.
Secondly, CP knows that the weekend of the function is the NCP's birthday so it would be assumed that there would be plans to celebrate especially since the D10 is going to be with him for his access. What if he wasn't able to take D10?
Thirdly, why does the CP insist on inserting herself in the day by claiming she has to bring the D10's uniform. She could have just sent it with the NCP when he picked up the child yesterday. She already gets to participate 26 days a month in all of the other activities D10 is enrolled in. Why can't she just let NCP have his time without CP?
They are about to have their first appearance in court next week. NCP is asking for more time. You would think she would be more cooperative with court looming.
Why is it that most CP can't respect the relationship between their kids and the NCP?
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