Hi folks,
Just went through CSR (Child Support Resolution) meeting with ex, as ex does not have a lawyer and wishes to take me to court to have child support reduced when child is away at university and to have the 'flat S7 amount' reduced or eliminated. No material change in circumstances for him (pay has actually gone up - earns in the low 100k range). Sold his residence to move in with his gf, took lots of vacations, took on a $400/month car payment despite leaving the marriage with a paid off vehicle that was only a couple of years old. His relationship appears to have failed, so now asking for MY bank statements (already provided tax returns and pay stubs for CSR meeting)? I'm open to offering a reduction for CS when child is away, and lowering the flat S7 amount instead of heading to court. If this goes to court, how does it play out? If the Minutes of Settlement were signed once child was already away at university, and the Divorce Judgement is signed, does the ex have the 'burden of proof' to explain why he can no longer afford what he legally agreed to ? Thanks in advance for your opinions.
Just went through CSR (Child Support Resolution) meeting with ex, as ex does not have a lawyer and wishes to take me to court to have child support reduced when child is away at university and to have the 'flat S7 amount' reduced or eliminated. No material change in circumstances for him (pay has actually gone up - earns in the low 100k range). Sold his residence to move in with his gf, took lots of vacations, took on a $400/month car payment despite leaving the marriage with a paid off vehicle that was only a couple of years old. His relationship appears to have failed, so now asking for MY bank statements (already provided tax returns and pay stubs for CSR meeting)? I'm open to offering a reduction for CS when child is away, and lowering the flat S7 amount instead of heading to court. If this goes to court, how does it play out? If the Minutes of Settlement were signed once child was already away at university, and the Divorce Judgement is signed, does the ex have the 'burden of proof' to explain why he can no longer afford what he legally agreed to ? Thanks in advance for your opinions.
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