Question to fathers with young daughters

[billm]

in order for that to be a damaging allegation one would have to know...who I am ,the sex and ages of children and the amount of children and where I live.The only person who possibly could correctly identify the posting would be my ex husband...

Not true, future google will know all - believe me.

[murphyslaw]

Not true, future google will know all - believe me.

Why ,what's google got up its sleeve now?Bad enough they tell criminals what cars we have in our driveway and what our back yards look like!

[murphyslaw]

Back to point....my dad had to wash my hair on his weekends with me until i was 8yrs old because my hair was down past my but!.I wasn't able to handle the sheer amount of hair because it was so long .Anyhow he had enough and brought me to the hairdressers and I got it chopped to a normal haircut...I was happy,he was happy but my mom had a giant hissy fit.Certainly never thought of it as weird and still dont.

[billm]

Why ,what's google got up its sleeve now?Bad enough they tell criminals what cars we have in our driveway and what our back yards look like!

Seriously, any sufficiently advanced technology is indistinguishable from magic.

I guarantee that anything you post on any website anywhere has the risk of being identified as being posted by you by search engines of the future.

Never post anything anywhere under any pseudonym that you would not want associated with you publicly.

[Rioe]

Seriously, any sufficiently advanced technology is indistinguishable from magic.

I guarantee that anything you post on any website anywhere has the risk of being identified as being posted by you by search engines of the future.

Never post anything anywhere under any pseudonym that you would not want associated with you publicly.

Just today, I learned that the term for putting the online clues together to identify someone is doxing.

[Rioe]

Many people marry just to provide a smokescreen for who they really are.Years ago gays married the opposite sex just for that purpose.

They also married in a desperate attempt to make themselves normal, not out of any intention to deceive anyone, least of whom their hapless spouse.

[mcdreamy]

in order for that to be a damaging allegation one would have to know...who I am ,the sex and ages of children and the amount of children and where I live.The only person who possibly could correctly identify the posting would be my ex husband.By acknowledging that he recognized it was me by the disclosure of child pornography would be detrimental to him and possibly prompt investigation into his current internet activities.Since none of that was ever disclosed to the court it and he has not been denied access it would odd for him to pursue this matter especially as Internet providers could provide records of what he viewed by court order for many years past
Arabian such is life .Many people marry just to provide a smokescreen for who they really are.Years ago gays married the opposite sex just for that purpose.

What an offensive statement, and an implication that GLBT are somehow or in someway child porn enthusiasts.

[Tayken]

in order for that to be a damaging allegation one would have to know...who I am ,the sex and ages of children and the amount of children and where I live.The only person who possibly could correctly identify the posting would be my ex husband.

Be careful with that "assumption" as you continue to post and more information gets revealed as you communicate with the community of users. You may slip up and do something that exposes you. Just warning you that is all. I don't take offense just a friendly warning that is all.

By acknowledging that he recognized it was me by the disclosure of child pornography would be detrimental to him and possibly prompt investigation into his current internet activities.Since none of that was ever disclosed to the court it and he has not been denied access it would odd for him to pursue this matter especially as Internet providers could provide records of what he viewed by court order for many years past
Arabian such is life .Many people marry just to provide a smokescreen for who they really are.Years ago gays married the opposite sex just for that purpose.

In fact, the Internet providers would require a detailed court order to reveal these records and the crown would have to seek a warrant. Not as easy as you think to gain access to this information.

Just please be very careful. If the person you are discussing is doing what you state... You could expose yourself to personal harm from the person in question. I am more concerned about your personal safety from the person you are making these allegations against more than anything.

[Tayken]

Not true, future google will know all - believe me.

They already do. It is amazing what they can track against a public user and cross reference to massive sets of identifying data.

[Tayken]

Just today, I learned that the term for putting the online clues together to identify someone is doxing.

Or better known in the commercial world as marketing:

Search Engine Marketing (SEM)

Search engine marketing - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

One can apply the common patterns of SEM tooling and companies are already doing this to find your online identities. Your HR department (if you work for a large organization) may already be seeking out your personal information to insure you are not disclosing confidential information on the internet.

[tugofwar]

1st, thanks blink
To clarify some of the posts, we seperated when our child was only a few months old. I did all the bathing, washing, feeding, preparing etc. The ex would leave the stinky soiled diapers for me to change
We are out of courts, have final orders, so tayken- hypothosis is incorrect. I would like it to stay that way.

There are certain needs that these young children expect from their parents. I have tried my best to make our child less dependant on others. One example is at 2 &1/2 yrs old, I had to teach her that every morning she needed a fresh pair of underwear.

My ex does not feel comfortable bathing her privates, so i was just looking to see if this is a common thing amongst fathers or not.

And it is an issue if the child is having problems wiping herself.... uti and yeast infections can be pretty painful.