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Old 02-26-2007, 10:55 PM
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Default Can I really let it go?

The sexual abuse allegations my daughters have made has been brought to the attention of CAS (youth protection) 3 times all ready and they have not done a single thing........ and they still won't because there is no proof and we are going through a divorce. My question is, how does a mother let that go? Can I really let it go? (I know my children were ignored because of the timing that they made teh allegations, but its not their fault, they probably finally felt safe because he no longer lived at home) I know I did not coach them.... and I know I reacted strongly abotu the allegations because I was furious ( and in CAS eyes they did not like the way I reacted, although I can not see any other way a loving mom can react when her child tells her he/she has been molested)

I want the whole divorce behind me, and I really do believe that kids shoud have a relationship with their dad, but it is so hard to let go of the allegations. Can I really let it go?
Old 02-27-2007, 12:02 AM
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Bring your child to CHEO and have the abuse documentated. If CHEO believes that abuse occurred they will call in the CAS to investigate.

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