After two months of the childs birth, the mother refused any access and after trying to reach her and convince her to let me see our child, I went to her home and asked to see the baby, she refused and although I was very polite she called the police who called me and said to not go to her place again and call a lawyer, as she already had one.
Five months later we were in court and she only allowed supervised access, I agreed as I wanted to see the child.
After supervised access began ( with a family member of mine) she once again called the police stating that the child was returned to her with a bloodied and bruised nose and that I opened up the car door of her car as she was driving away.
This was totally false, and she even fabricated a fake picture in court which can be easily proven was fake.
The police contacted me, we had a very brief phone call, I told them of my evidence and that was the end of it, and they said that I should call CAS as the mother had.
They also said the the mother was emotional and that there was no blood, and I asked them if I could come to the police station to show my evidence and the detective told me it would not be necessary.
I called CAS and they knew nothing about it.
This was leveraged in court to me accepting supervised access at a specific agency and after three visits, the other party said that we can now simply use them as an exchange facility, which we had been doing since the pandemic started.
Multiple police officers advised me that we should transfer the child at a police station and the other party would never agree and the Judge basically mocked me for suggesting that in court.
My question is the following:
Is there anything that I can do such as potentially seeking criminal charges against her ( not sure of the statute of limitations on this as it was three years ago) ?
Is this simply something that I show all of the evidence of at a trial?
I've made a lot of mistakes as I was unrepresented for most of the four years in court, but I want to safeguard that this does not happen again, to the best of my abilities and there has been zero accountability for any of her actions, and as a matter of fact, it has been an excellent strategy by her as I'm.still very behind the eight ball, so to speak.
Thanks in advance for any thoughts.
Five months later we were in court and she only allowed supervised access, I agreed as I wanted to see the child.
After supervised access began ( with a family member of mine) she once again called the police stating that the child was returned to her with a bloodied and bruised nose and that I opened up the car door of her car as she was driving away.
This was totally false, and she even fabricated a fake picture in court which can be easily proven was fake.
The police contacted me, we had a very brief phone call, I told them of my evidence and that was the end of it, and they said that I should call CAS as the mother had.
They also said the the mother was emotional and that there was no blood, and I asked them if I could come to the police station to show my evidence and the detective told me it would not be necessary.
I called CAS and they knew nothing about it.
This was leveraged in court to me accepting supervised access at a specific agency and after three visits, the other party said that we can now simply use them as an exchange facility, which we had been doing since the pandemic started.
Multiple police officers advised me that we should transfer the child at a police station and the other party would never agree and the Judge basically mocked me for suggesting that in court.
My question is the following:
Is there anything that I can do such as potentially seeking criminal charges against her ( not sure of the statute of limitations on this as it was three years ago) ?
Is this simply something that I show all of the evidence of at a trial?
I've made a lot of mistakes as I was unrepresented for most of the four years in court, but I want to safeguard that this does not happen again, to the best of my abilities and there has been zero accountability for any of her actions, and as a matter of fact, it has been an excellent strategy by her as I'm.still very behind the eight ball, so to speak.
Thanks in advance for any thoughts.
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