OP didn’t allow anything. Do you expect parents to go into their ex’s home dragging the kids out kicking and screaming? He did things the only way he could—took legal action with included an OCL report which takes months. His story is heart breaking as he refused to get into a battle with children. There is a really great book on this similar topic called A Family’s Heartbreak where the dad had full 50/50 but one child slowly developed a hatred for him. He would go to the house and try to force kid to spend time with him—enforcing his time—and kid would scream at him, hit him and tell him horribly heartbreaking things. Slowly kid simply stopped seeing him and his therapist worked with dad on not getting angry or forcing the child to do what he wanted.
My cousin had the same problem with his kids. Shared 50/50 and he tried to enforce it but when kids have one parent saying things and encouraging to “do what they feel” it breaks down. Thankfully for him his ex never had food and never did laundry so the kids came back.
My cousin had the same problem with his kids. Shared 50/50 and he tried to enforce it but when kids have one parent saying things and encouraging to “do what they feel” it breaks down. Thankfully for him his ex never had food and never did laundry so the kids came back.
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