Hi again,
I have a few questions and was hoping with a brief history of my case if anyone could offer help/advice...
My ex moved away with our child two years ago. Met a new man a while after and moved, changed numbers and tried to hide. I have been involved with legal actions for almost a year now. (< Long story....Lawyer "helped" for 7 months by doing nothing and then decided he was not qualified for this) I began self rep had papers served for sole custody (child made statements of step father touching her, mother has called (with blocked number many time asking for me to take child because she couldn't handle her, many many many other things told to me by her close family/friends and CAS) MIP was early March in which ex didn't go to and she didn't serve the from 10 within 30 days. Case conference is next week.
From what her family has told me she had no interest in serving me. She is planing on moving out of Provence. Everyone has told her to just hand over custody because she really has no interest in the child, her and her partner don't like the child and they can't move with the child (I had this blocked on their first attempt) She has told her family that she want to just "hand her over" and leave.
I'm so worried for the health of our child as this is going to be a huge shock to her. She will be pushed from mom into my house with my partner and mom is going to take off. I do think the best thing for our child is for her to reside in my house primarily with myself making all important choices but I still think it is very very important for her mom to be apart of her live on a regular basis.
Is there anything I can do to try to keep mom here so she doesn't abandon her daughter?
I know she will because she see's our daughter as a part of me and she and her partner hate that. They abuse her because her moms partner is not her bio dad. She has said once she is gone she is gone...
As much as I would love to have our daughter all to myself as I'm sure lots of parents would it is NOT in the best interest of our daughter if she just leaves.
My partner and I are doing as much research as possible and attending many classes to try to understand what will happen, but both of us still know this is going to break my daughter.
If I can't stop her mom from leaving any idea's as to what I can do to make this easier on my daughter?
Thanks so much for any advice.
I have a few questions and was hoping with a brief history of my case if anyone could offer help/advice...
My ex moved away with our child two years ago. Met a new man a while after and moved, changed numbers and tried to hide. I have been involved with legal actions for almost a year now. (< Long story....Lawyer "helped" for 7 months by doing nothing and then decided he was not qualified for this) I began self rep had papers served for sole custody (child made statements of step father touching her, mother has called (with blocked number many time asking for me to take child because she couldn't handle her, many many many other things told to me by her close family/friends and CAS) MIP was early March in which ex didn't go to and she didn't serve the from 10 within 30 days. Case conference is next week.
From what her family has told me she had no interest in serving me. She is planing on moving out of Provence. Everyone has told her to just hand over custody because she really has no interest in the child, her and her partner don't like the child and they can't move with the child (I had this blocked on their first attempt) She has told her family that she want to just "hand her over" and leave.
I'm so worried for the health of our child as this is going to be a huge shock to her. She will be pushed from mom into my house with my partner and mom is going to take off. I do think the best thing for our child is for her to reside in my house primarily with myself making all important choices but I still think it is very very important for her mom to be apart of her live on a regular basis.
Is there anything I can do to try to keep mom here so she doesn't abandon her daughter?
I know she will because she see's our daughter as a part of me and she and her partner hate that. They abuse her because her moms partner is not her bio dad. She has said once she is gone she is gone...
As much as I would love to have our daughter all to myself as I'm sure lots of parents would it is NOT in the best interest of our daughter if she just leaves.
My partner and I are doing as much research as possible and attending many classes to try to understand what will happen, but both of us still know this is going to break my daughter.
If I can't stop her mom from leaving any idea's as to what I can do to make this easier on my daughter?
Thanks so much for any advice.
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