I'm hoping someone can give advise on what to do in my situation. I will give a little background. My ex and I have been divorced for almost 3 years. We had a marraige of power and control and emotional abuse on his part. I left him after he had threatened my life. Our divorce is finallized but he continues to battle and fight me on everything ultimatly tries to control still. He has visitation access to our 8 year old daughter and throughout the 3 years he has broken contact from her 4 times. He states he has to because of his mental health(depression), that I have caused him. Everything is my fault.I have moved on with my life and am getting remarried this summer, he also has a new woman and 2 children in his life in the past 2 years but he still cant seem to let go of the anger and resentment from me leaving him. He has also failed to pay proper child support( the FRO is dealing with that). Anyway , this past March Break he had her for a 10 days and hasnt seen her since. He called me on the phone stating I was kidnapping his child and not giving him access and he yelled, threatened me etc and then wrote me a life threatening email and told me that he would not be contacting our daughter by phone or seeing her again until he got a restraining order against me. ??? He is not in the right mind and I am terrified. I did contact the police regarding the threat on my life and they did handle the situation with him. So he has not called her or seen her since. She is seeing a child pychologist through all this to help her. Last week he sent me an email stating that he was now going to take her for summer vacation from July 1- Labour Day weekend. I responded that that was innappropriate to take her for the whole summer and that he could see her for his 5 weeks as laid out in our court order. He never responded back. He was just trying to push my buttons again.
Anyways, what do I do when he does really want to start visitation again. I know he has rights to see her and she deserves to see him but I am scared for her safety while in his care, (mental health), he controls and manipulates her, his threats on my life and he hasnt seen her for months. How do you just pop back in her life like nothing. This is the 4th time in 3 years he has done this. The detective involved with the threat advised me to get supervised visitation.
Any advise or help would be appreciated
Sorry this was long winded.
Anyways, what do I do when he does really want to start visitation again. I know he has rights to see her and she deserves to see him but I am scared for her safety while in his care, (mental health), he controls and manipulates her, his threats on my life and he hasnt seen her for months. How do you just pop back in her life like nothing. This is the 4th time in 3 years he has done this. The detective involved with the threat advised me to get supervised visitation.
Any advise or help would be appreciated
Sorry this was long winded.
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