After two offers to mediate, an offer to settle, and then finally a court application my ex has responded with wanting LESS access?!? I’m slightly confused by this. One side of me wants to take it and run. If you’ve read any other of my posts, the ex’s has been doing some pretty questionable things to our oldest son. The other side of me wants to slap him in the face and make him step up and be a parent. I offered a very close to a 40/60 deal with offset child support. He’s responded with every other weekend and every other Wednesday.
So my question, is this really in the best interest of the kids? I’m sure he’ll settle down eventually and stop putting the kids in the middle, but can you really force someone to step up and do the right thing? Just feeling pretty sorry for the kids over this one. Not to mention I’m pretty pissed I’ve wasted so much money over this when he could’ve told me he wanted this months ago.
Any thoughts on what you would do in my position.
So my question, is this really in the best interest of the kids? I’m sure he’ll settle down eventually and stop putting the kids in the middle, but can you really force someone to step up and do the right thing? Just feeling pretty sorry for the kids over this one. Not to mention I’m pretty pissed I’ve wasted so much money over this when he could’ve told me he wanted this months ago.
Any thoughts on what you would do in my position.
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