My ex wife started dating a seemingly normal guy about 5-6 months ago. I have never talked to or contacted her new partner and from what the kids have told me they like him. In the past she was with a crazy guy who stalked my house, her house, her families house and eventually was scared off when cas became involved.
My ex and I have 2 boys ages 11 and 5, joint custody, week on/week off. We officially ended our relationship around 3 years ago and I recently purchased a home with my new fiancee. My fiancee and I have left my ex and her new partner alone, we don't contact them and we don't talk poorly of them to our kids. We are very happy in our life together and have no need to bother others. When my ex had her last crazy boyfriend we put up with vandalism, breakins, threats etc etc and the police were literally useless.
Recently I have been noticing a vehicle similar to my ex wifes current partner driving through my new neighbourhood and driving past my house. I took the license plate and it is indeed her boyfriend. Our street is very private and connects to nothing, essentially, if you are coming onto my street you are visiting a home on it. Her boyfriend apparently lives on the other end of town, about 20-25 minutes away. We have been seeing him more and more and videotaped him yesterday driving slowly by the front of the house. I know its a public street but he has no business that I can think of being there and we have never done a thing to him.
I contacted my ex yesterday and politely expressed my frustration. My fiancee is scared especially considering the stuff we went through with her last partner. My ex wife became upset at the accusations and didn't believe me so I sent her a copy of the video. Within 10 minutes her boyfriend is calling my house and inviting me to come and fight....the whole time I can hear my kids talking in the background which means they are likely hearing this lunatic. The guy wanted me to come to the store they were shopping at and fight him....while out with my kids???!!! The guy was so offended and pissed off that I dare videotape his truck that he wanted to fight and promised that he would drive by as often as he likes because "its a public road".
In your opinion, when does his presence become a police matter? We called yesterday and there is nothing they can do at this point. I would LOVE to act without consequences but that is not how the world operates. I really don't understand why he is bothering us.
The last time he saw me turn down my own street he took off like a bat out of hell. I really really don't get this guy.
My ex and I have 2 boys ages 11 and 5, joint custody, week on/week off. We officially ended our relationship around 3 years ago and I recently purchased a home with my new fiancee. My fiancee and I have left my ex and her new partner alone, we don't contact them and we don't talk poorly of them to our kids. We are very happy in our life together and have no need to bother others. When my ex had her last crazy boyfriend we put up with vandalism, breakins, threats etc etc and the police were literally useless.
Recently I have been noticing a vehicle similar to my ex wifes current partner driving through my new neighbourhood and driving past my house. I took the license plate and it is indeed her boyfriend. Our street is very private and connects to nothing, essentially, if you are coming onto my street you are visiting a home on it. Her boyfriend apparently lives on the other end of town, about 20-25 minutes away. We have been seeing him more and more and videotaped him yesterday driving slowly by the front of the house. I know its a public street but he has no business that I can think of being there and we have never done a thing to him.
I contacted my ex yesterday and politely expressed my frustration. My fiancee is scared especially considering the stuff we went through with her last partner. My ex wife became upset at the accusations and didn't believe me so I sent her a copy of the video. Within 10 minutes her boyfriend is calling my house and inviting me to come and fight....the whole time I can hear my kids talking in the background which means they are likely hearing this lunatic. The guy wanted me to come to the store they were shopping at and fight him....while out with my kids???!!! The guy was so offended and pissed off that I dare videotape his truck that he wanted to fight and promised that he would drive by as often as he likes because "its a public road".
In your opinion, when does his presence become a police matter? We called yesterday and there is nothing they can do at this point. I would LOVE to act without consequences but that is not how the world operates. I really don't understand why he is bothering us.
The last time he saw me turn down my own street he took off like a bat out of hell. I really really don't get this guy.
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