Quick question.
Right now there is no final paperwork but how we have our son is on a shared 50/50 joint custody arrangement. Ex signed paperwork (we did up our own draft and were working on a final agreement) this paperwork had said that we were to have shared (50/50) joint custody. Also it mentioned that neither parent were to move 30 km away from either parent.
I recently just bought a house with my gf and her kids and my kids in city just outside of the city my ex lives in (it was cheaper and convenient for both my gf and I and the child arrangements we have). The distance equals to 15km away from her house. I do all the driving as it is now. So the two days out of a week plus every other weekend i would have to drive him to his moms house.
Now that i finally bought this house and i am ready to move in she says she is seeing a lawyer now and her lawyer said that now that i moved to a different city i am not entitled to my 50/50 shared access anymore cause i am not in the same city as her. She is trying to say now that i cannot have my son the two overnight visits during the week anymore because i live in a different city and she is goign for full custody.
We have had this arrangement for 1 1/2 years now where i have had my son 1/2 the time. Is it possible to lose my rights to have shared custody since i moved 15 km to another city----plus she doesn't have to do any of the driving?\
I'm afraid she might be doing this because of the new CRA thing where each parent can claim 6 months each when you are in a shared parenting....and i really hope that this is not the case cause i could not imagine not having my child 1/2 the time jsut so she can claim a full year. In the past she has mentioned many times that she cannot live without the benefits from the govt and on top of it i already give her $950 a month for one child.
Can someone please help me out?
Right now there is no final paperwork but how we have our son is on a shared 50/50 joint custody arrangement. Ex signed paperwork (we did up our own draft and were working on a final agreement) this paperwork had said that we were to have shared (50/50) joint custody. Also it mentioned that neither parent were to move 30 km away from either parent.
I recently just bought a house with my gf and her kids and my kids in city just outside of the city my ex lives in (it was cheaper and convenient for both my gf and I and the child arrangements we have). The distance equals to 15km away from her house. I do all the driving as it is now. So the two days out of a week plus every other weekend i would have to drive him to his moms house.
Now that i finally bought this house and i am ready to move in she says she is seeing a lawyer now and her lawyer said that now that i moved to a different city i am not entitled to my 50/50 shared access anymore cause i am not in the same city as her. She is trying to say now that i cannot have my son the two overnight visits during the week anymore because i live in a different city and she is goign for full custody.
We have had this arrangement for 1 1/2 years now where i have had my son 1/2 the time. Is it possible to lose my rights to have shared custody since i moved 15 km to another city----plus she doesn't have to do any of the driving?\
I'm afraid she might be doing this because of the new CRA thing where each parent can claim 6 months each when you are in a shared parenting....and i really hope that this is not the case cause i could not imagine not having my child 1/2 the time jsut so she can claim a full year. In the past she has mentioned many times that she cannot live without the benefits from the govt and on top of it i already give her $950 a month for one child.
Can someone please help me out?
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