Not knocking them at all, but i believe you live and learn and a book no matter who it's written by doesn't have all the answers. To me, you should look back in your marrriage or relationship and see if ther were warning signs or red flags that signaled something was wrong that you may have ignored that led to the break down of things. Whether its a spouse who drinks , has a drug problem , gambles or is physically, verbally , or mentally abusive .
Things were'nt always bad in marriages, they're nice when they start off .Things gotten bad because whatever the problem, it was allowed to continue instead of solved when it happened.
Look inside yourself, see what you did or are doing that hurts the marriage or realtionship and make changes to yourself it you want it to work. If your partner doesnt want it to work , then you have to move on.
I have been through 2 horrible marriages and it's been 2 years since i have been in a relationship and i am more happy now then i have been almost my whole life. My solution didnt come from reading a book, but by doing soul searching and working on myself and admitting my mistakes and flaws and working on them to make me a better person in life and making sure i am prepared in my next relationship.
Things were'nt always bad in marriages, they're nice when they start off .Things gotten bad because whatever the problem, it was allowed to continue instead of solved when it happened.
Look inside yourself, see what you did or are doing that hurts the marriage or realtionship and make changes to yourself it you want it to work. If your partner doesnt want it to work , then you have to move on.
I have been through 2 horrible marriages and it's been 2 years since i have been in a relationship and i am more happy now then i have been almost my whole life. My solution didnt come from reading a book, but by doing soul searching and working on myself and admitting my mistakes and flaws and working on them to make me a better person in life and making sure i am prepared in my next relationship.
Comment