Not really my own situation, its the law really that is the problem for me.
PH, you brought your wonderful amazing husband up again and so I'm gonna ask if you don't mind the following
1. Did he leave her or cheat on her or in some other way end the marriage, or was it "agreed" upon or did she leave him?
2. Lets talk #s, how much does ur ex earn?
how much does he pay in SS?
how much is left over?
Does he have other income (investments etc...)
Don't answer if you don't want, I'm just curious as to how somebody can really be happy paying LOTS (all relative)of money to support some other person's lifestyle.
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I'm not saying I wouldn't remarry, but it isn't going to be a relationship just because I think somebody is great.
I'm going to tell myself there is 50% chance we get divorced what would happen then? ideally, I won't live life one foot in/one foot out but I will make that evaluation at the start.
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PH, you brought your wonderful amazing husband up again and so I'm gonna ask if you don't mind the following
1. Did he leave her or cheat on her or in some other way end the marriage, or was it "agreed" upon or did she leave him?
2. Lets talk #s, how much does ur ex earn?
how much does he pay in SS?
how much is left over?
Does he have other income (investments etc...)
Don't answer if you don't want, I'm just curious as to how somebody can really be happy paying LOTS (all relative)of money to support some other person's lifestyle.
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I'm not saying I wouldn't remarry, but it isn't going to be a relationship just because I think somebody is great.
I'm going to tell myself there is 50% chance we get divorced what would happen then? ideally, I won't live life one foot in/one foot out but I will make that evaluation at the start.
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