my ex likes to try to amke me jump through the hoops and make sure Im under hardship. We have joint custody with me making final decisons after consultation. all on family wizard.
My ex is obligated to pick up and drop off as well as take my son to his activities on his visation and keeping up with his routine. My ex visits once a month for 4 days.
My ex has final decision making on french education with consultation, with myself being obligated to transport. I prefer someone actually come over and spend the hour, and even transport..but if my ex disagrees and makes me drive across the city for an activity...can I claim gas, car expenses?
another reason:
my ex wanted no family daycare so I had to stop my parents providing transportation/before and after school care. My parents were paid and my ex had stopped 2 yrs prior when my son was in formal care. He just avoided and refused to pay any of these costs.
Now my son has before and after school at the school, daycamps and extra charges for inservice days etc and I gained parking and gas and car expenses, opposed to my saving money by taking the bus.
Vindictive and controlling.
Also I requested his family spend an evening once a month, as well as any 1 other evening through the month. They dont want to help me nor visit with any activity (inc soccer, or swim). They live 5 min away and have refused to coordinate and now they too are on family wizard.
This is in the agreement and they are to pickup....now they are trying to get me to drop off.
How should I handle these extra costs and am I stuck with this under child support?
My ex is obligated to pick up and drop off as well as take my son to his activities on his visation and keeping up with his routine. My ex visits once a month for 4 days.
My ex has final decision making on french education with consultation, with myself being obligated to transport. I prefer someone actually come over and spend the hour, and even transport..but if my ex disagrees and makes me drive across the city for an activity...can I claim gas, car expenses?
another reason:
my ex wanted no family daycare so I had to stop my parents providing transportation/before and after school care. My parents were paid and my ex had stopped 2 yrs prior when my son was in formal care. He just avoided and refused to pay any of these costs.
Now my son has before and after school at the school, daycamps and extra charges for inservice days etc and I gained parking and gas and car expenses, opposed to my saving money by taking the bus.
Vindictive and controlling.
Also I requested his family spend an evening once a month, as well as any 1 other evening through the month. They dont want to help me nor visit with any activity (inc soccer, or swim). They live 5 min away and have refused to coordinate and now they too are on family wizard.
This is in the agreement and they are to pickup....now they are trying to get me to drop off.
How should I handle these extra costs and am I stuck with this under child support?
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