Monday morning I am heading to get the order and establish this as their residence, custody, etc. then we will work out access to the kids.
She has called several more times, insisting that this is "destroying the kids". I reminded her that the time they have been away from their mom so far is less than the amount of time they are suggesting they be away from their dad every single week, but I cut myself off at that point so as to not engage them further.
I'm feeling much more confident now regarding the decision I am making. Up until this point I've not had many friends and my entire perspective and sense of self worth (plus sense of self doubt) have been engineering by her. She has always opposed engaging any third party in our matters and this has kept me without a frame of reference. A lot of it is starting to make sense.
She has called several more times, insisting that this is "destroying the kids". I reminded her that the time they have been away from their mom so far is less than the amount of time they are suggesting they be away from their dad every single week, but I cut myself off at that point so as to not engage them further.
I'm feeling much more confident now regarding the decision I am making. Up until this point I've not had many friends and my entire perspective and sense of self worth (plus sense of self doubt) have been engineering by her. She has always opposed engaging any third party in our matters and this has kept me without a frame of reference. A lot of it is starting to make sense.
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