I am putting a general question out there,
For the moms and dads out there that are dealing with child supports, what is it a good system that you have found to preserve the child support strictly be used for the child- instead of paying your ex spouses' new purse/ saturday night dinner etc....
If the child is equally shared between two households and both parents have ways to support themselves and the child when with them, it doesn't make sense one still needs to pay for the other- either dad or mom. Especially in the situation when one parent decides not to work and therefore can get half of the parenting time, and collecting a cheque from the other parent--> isn't it too easy for the equal parenting time become a way to make money from the other parent?- both genders considered. Also in situation one wealthy parent ( eg: have a rich parents to support him or her) decides to stop work or become less "productive" in their job, he or she can pretty much sit back and relaxed and wait for the poor parent to support them?
I have heard some parents deposit child support into the child's bank account and save it for the child's education. This way the money is in neither parents hands and there will be no concern of how the money will be spent one day since by the child is 18, he will have a say in how to use the money. Do people out there actually do this?
Any comment?
For the moms and dads out there that are dealing with child supports, what is it a good system that you have found to preserve the child support strictly be used for the child- instead of paying your ex spouses' new purse/ saturday night dinner etc....
If the child is equally shared between two households and both parents have ways to support themselves and the child when with them, it doesn't make sense one still needs to pay for the other- either dad or mom. Especially in the situation when one parent decides not to work and therefore can get half of the parenting time, and collecting a cheque from the other parent--> isn't it too easy for the equal parenting time become a way to make money from the other parent?- both genders considered. Also in situation one wealthy parent ( eg: have a rich parents to support him or her) decides to stop work or become less "productive" in their job, he or she can pretty much sit back and relaxed and wait for the poor parent to support them?
I have heard some parents deposit child support into the child's bank account and save it for the child's education. This way the money is in neither parents hands and there will be no concern of how the money will be spent one day since by the child is 18, he will have a say in how to use the money. Do people out there actually do this?
Any comment?
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