In July of this year my ex and I seperated after 10 years of marriage.
Since that time he has done everything in his power to alienate and brainwash my children against me. Everything from cursing on me in front of the children to telling them I am a liar( that is putting it mildly). Not once have I ever berated my ex in front of the children.
I have filed(in September) for joint custody of my children with the aid of a lawyer. Not getting anywhere with this as my lawyer will not answer my calls(only emails). The only time I get to see my children is through extra-curricular activities or driving to the house after work for a five to ten minute "quality time" session with my children in my vehicle. Unfortunately, my son has been almost completely turned against me by my ex and his parents( who now live with him in the matrimonial home). My daughter tells me she understands, to a point, why the marriage ended but the time I spend with them is limited( not for my lack of trying).
I am stuck in a rut and I don't know where to go from here. I am falling apart day by day and am emotionally drained being away from my children like this. I have been the parent who has been there for them all there lives and now it seems as though that never really ever made a diffirence. Is there anyone out there who has experienced anything even close to this. I need some motivation. HELP!!!!!
Since that time he has done everything in his power to alienate and brainwash my children against me. Everything from cursing on me in front of the children to telling them I am a liar( that is putting it mildly). Not once have I ever berated my ex in front of the children.
I have filed(in September) for joint custody of my children with the aid of a lawyer. Not getting anywhere with this as my lawyer will not answer my calls(only emails). The only time I get to see my children is through extra-curricular activities or driving to the house after work for a five to ten minute "quality time" session with my children in my vehicle. Unfortunately, my son has been almost completely turned against me by my ex and his parents( who now live with him in the matrimonial home). My daughter tells me she understands, to a point, why the marriage ended but the time I spend with them is limited( not for my lack of trying).
I am stuck in a rut and I don't know where to go from here. I am falling apart day by day and am emotionally drained being away from my children like this. I have been the parent who has been there for them all there lives and now it seems as though that never really ever made a diffirence. Is there anyone out there who has experienced anything even close to this. I need some motivation. HELP!!!!!
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