I don't want to sound harsh with you, you fully appreciate the problems that lie before you and I can certainly relate to those same problems (some, not all). To me, you are sounding "penny wise and pound foolish"
If you unilaterally pick and get the appraisal done they(ex wife and lawyer) can then claim they don't agree with the results, leaving a Judge back with "she said "he said". You have to remember a Judge will always favor those exchanges with your ex.
Another overview I found helpful is " doing the right thing usually won't win you anything in court but doing the wrong thing will always cost you dearly.
Try and get ahead of the arguments they will put forth and cut them off before court. By you offering her to pick the appraiser you take away the " I don't agree with the appraisal" position. A Judge will usually say " well mame you picked the appraiser. It also opens up the position for you not to agree with the appraiser.
Is sending $200.00 letters a pain in the ass..absolutely. just keep in mind the person sitting higher than you has all the power to make your life good and bearable or the polar opposite.
I must say you are doing a good job managing your file. Keep up the good work .
If you unilaterally pick and get the appraisal done they(ex wife and lawyer) can then claim they don't agree with the results, leaving a Judge back with "she said "he said". You have to remember a Judge will always favor those exchanges with your ex.
Another overview I found helpful is " doing the right thing usually won't win you anything in court but doing the wrong thing will always cost you dearly.
Try and get ahead of the arguments they will put forth and cut them off before court. By you offering her to pick the appraiser you take away the " I don't agree with the appraisal" position. A Judge will usually say " well mame you picked the appraiser. It also opens up the position for you not to agree with the appraiser.
Is sending $200.00 letters a pain in the ass..absolutely. just keep in mind the person sitting higher than you has all the power to make your life good and bearable or the polar opposite.
I must say you are doing a good job managing your file. Keep up the good work .
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