I arrived home from work today to find that I have been served legal papers from my wifes attorney. I received them today Sept 7 at 4 pm and I must act on them by Sept 9. They basically say that she demands that I relinquish the house to her by this Sunday and that she be allowed to live in the house alone with the kids for the next 7 days and then I get to live in the house alone with the kids the following week and so on and so on. They also demand that I re-instate her to my work benefits plan (because after she ran off with another guy after our 21 years together) I took her off my medical and dental plan from work. They also state that I am abusive and harrassing and if I do not agree to all her demands that they will ask for an emergency hearing to have me removed from the home and give her interim custody of the kids .
This is coming from a woman who moved in with her boyfriend 3 weeks after telling me she wanted a separation. She has not paid a bill in this house in 6 months, did not come and see any of her kids soccer games all summer and has not slept in the matrimonial home even one minute in over a month .
My questions are, can she actually do this or are they bluffing ?
How can I make a proper decision with only 1 days notice ?
What should my lawyerdo to fight this ?
I need help fast.
This is coming from a woman who moved in with her boyfriend 3 weeks after telling me she wanted a separation. She has not paid a bill in this house in 6 months, did not come and see any of her kids soccer games all summer and has not slept in the matrimonial home even one minute in over a month .
My questions are, can she actually do this or are they bluffing ?
How can I make a proper decision with only 1 days notice ?
What should my lawyerdo to fight this ?
I need help fast.
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