@ Arabian, I'm so sorry about your experience, it's a terrible thing for anyone to do to someone else. I would have been angry as well. That experience really hit me hard, as soon as it came to light I ended it and moved on. It's just too much pain for everyone ex, kids, the other woman's family...just not worth it. too many people get hurt, as I have learned.
I wish I had something documented as well, so it would be hearsay at this point. The ex is smart, she would have never put anything like that in writing. I remember at the time all I felt was scared, losing my job and my family. All I can say is people only have to look at our separation agreement and see that is completely unfair. I had an acquaintance look at our agreement once he was a lawyer he turned to me and said "you signed everything over, so tell me what did you do!" not to mention the judge at the recent case conference said as he looked at me "it's obvious you had no legal advice".
so maybe I have no leg to stand on for setting aside this agreement. I believe my ex said to me that she would "make sure I pay for this for the rest of my life". I think she meant it.
I wish I had something documented as well, so it would be hearsay at this point. The ex is smart, she would have never put anything like that in writing. I remember at the time all I felt was scared, losing my job and my family. All I can say is people only have to look at our separation agreement and see that is completely unfair. I had an acquaintance look at our agreement once he was a lawyer he turned to me and said "you signed everything over, so tell me what did you do!" not to mention the judge at the recent case conference said as he looked at me "it's obvious you had no legal advice".
so maybe I have no leg to stand on for setting aside this agreement. I believe my ex said to me that she would "make sure I pay for this for the rest of my life". I think she meant it.
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