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Old 01-19-2014, 11:17 AM
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Just wondering if anyone can answer this,

I have a court order stating that ex is to pay 65% of approved sports that we have both agreed upon. We both agreed on a certain sport that both children have been playing for years. Ex is now refusing to pay his share, is there any way to that FRO can enforce this? I thought I had read somewhere that as long as I have a court order and receipts that FRO can deduct his share. Is there any truth to this??
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Old 01-19-2014, 11:44 AM
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I have a court order stating that ex is to pay 65% of approved sports that we have both agreed upon.
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We both agreed on a certain sport that both children have been playing for years.
Agreed on a sport together yes, but did you agree on signing the kids up for the sport in the year in question?

The answer is between the lines in the court order that you have.....most disputes surround extracurricular expenses usually boils down to the "I did or did not give consent to kid being signed up for the activity for that year/time/period"

Yes the kids have done the sports for years, both parties still have to discuss it before kids are signed up....that way it doesn't become a unilaterally decision.

If you don't mind me asking.....if you were the one that had to pay 65% of costs, won't you have wanted the other party to ask you first? Just curious
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Old 01-19-2014, 02:50 PM
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@Demi.....

Note the words in bold

Agreed on a sport together yes, but did you agree on signing the kids up for the sport in the year in question?

The answer is between the lines in the court order that you have.....most disputes surround extracurricular expenses usually boils down to the "I did or did not give consent to kid being signed up for the activity for that year/time/period"

Yes the kids have done the sports for years, both parties still have to discuss it before kids are signed up....that way it doesn't become a unilaterally decision.

If you don't mind me asking.....if you were the one that had to pay 65% of costs, won't you have wanted the other party to ask you first? Just curious
Can't wait to read the answer to this wuestion!
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Old 01-19-2014, 03:00 PM
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Mother - I'm curious. Are you male or female? I am yet to see a post from you where you express yourself in the 1st person.
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Old 01-19-2014, 03:08 PM
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Mother - I'm curious. Are you male or female? I am yet to see a post from you where you express yourself in the 1st person.
Dear Arabian, I am puzzled as to why are you puzzled? I've never met a male-mother in my entire life. Have you? Are you puzzled because having a nick name "mother" here I seem to be pro-male character?

And I express myself very specifically when I say "I want to see the answer to this question". Can't be more specific unless you teach me how..

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Old 01-19-2014, 03:12 PM
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Simply curious is all. My question is with regards to most of your previous posts. Subterfuge is alive and well on public forums is it not?

peace to you too.
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Old 01-19-2014, 03:22 PM
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Simply curious is all. My question is with regards to most of your previous posts. Subterfuge is alive and well on public forums is it not?

peace to you too.
lol like WDs ex who used the handle "confusedmommy" then tried to say that they were male?
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Old 01-19-2014, 03:27 PM
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Yes I recall 'confusedmommy'

I have observed "coming out" at a later date... I often wonder what the point is as we all use different names on here!?!
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Old 01-19-2014, 03:28 PM
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Simply curious is all. My question is with regards to most of your previous posts. Subterfuge is alive and well on public forums is it not?

peace to you too.
That's true but to make it crystal clear to you, I am as woman as it gets and straight as an arrow too (yeah, I know, this one is sooo old fashion) lol

You are confused because I often talk about Parent A and Parent B and there is a reason for this.
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Old 01-19-2014, 03:35 PM
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Oh no!

Ladies and Gentlemen, I am a WOMAN!!! Was actually born this way.
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