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Old 11-24-2013, 09:13 AM
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If I were a payor I would do everything I could do to get my ex in a financially self-sufficient position. To not do this, when one is clearly able to, indicates a desire on the payor's part to be controlling and stay attached to the payee.

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True but it does work both ways. Some people who get SS don't want it to ever end and want it forever. They refuse to get off their hineys and upgrade education or go look for a job. Its their way of being supported by the ex for as long as possible after the marriage has ended.

Not saying everyone is like that, each situation is different but there are some who take advantage of things. The system does need a major overhaul.
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Old 11-24-2013, 09:17 AM
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If he was then I will not have give share children custody.
How generous of you.

Custody is/was not yours to give.
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Old 11-24-2013, 09:18 AM
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Hmmm will I now be attacked? I don't think it is relevant to speak my whole story and details about money when I ask only about equalization, and Cpp/ltd. I have question I ask and get advise on that.

If I ask question and more info is need ask me and I give it to you. How do SS matter in equalization, Cpp and ltd? Btw I get really low Ss .
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Old 11-24-2013, 09:20 AM
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Of course it was. He had to prove he is fit or atleast capable. He is still in strict watch . Random drug tests and CAS always watching. If he follows all the directions then he can continue to see the children if not he loses them. Simple!
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Old 11-24-2013, 09:21 AM
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I don't now how to quote other post but this was answer to my generosity. I am a very generous person and do not keep kids away from ex when I could
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Old 11-24-2013, 09:33 AM
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Of course it was. He had to prove he is fit or atleast capable. He is still in strict watch . Random drug tests and CAS always watching. If he follows all the directions then he can continue to see the children if not he loses them. Simple!
Like I said, you don't choose whether or not he sees the kids.
Your ex(and his actions, or lack thereof,) ultimately does.

I'd suggest, that in your upcoming court appearance, that you don't tell the judge it's you who decides if your ex is capable of caring for the children.

....and for your sake, I hope you don't get a judge in a wheelchair.
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Old 11-24-2013, 09:47 AM
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Firhill, u look to be very bitter. Paying spousal support to ex?
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Old 11-24-2013, 09:50 AM
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Like I said, you don't choose whether or not he sees the kids.
Your ex(and his actions, or lack thereof,) ultimately does.

I'd suggest, that in your upcoming court appearance, that you don't tell the judge it's you who decides if your ex is capable of caring for the children.

....and for your sake, I hope you don't get a judge in a wheelchair.
I just peek at your first post. I now understand why u say that. It's ok. Everyone here speaks from there own experience. I won't judge.
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Old 11-24-2013, 10:03 AM
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Yahoo, I am a a bit perplexed about your writing style in your posts of today. I am not in any way attacking your spelling and grammar or your character, but I noticed that your previous posts had very good grammar and spelling. Today your style is very different, as if someone else were messaging, not you.

Care to comment?
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Old 11-24-2013, 10:06 AM
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Yes my friend type some posts for me. Is that also not allow?

If you see bad English then it's me . If other then my friend. But I am not stupid becoz I have bad engliah
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