Hi,
I've been married for 7 years together for 10 years. We have 2 little girls 3 and 5. He has been having affairs throughout our relationship (I know of 3) and decided to leave in November. He was ready to leave me the kids at a 30/70 split as long as he didn't have to pay child support. We went to mediation and we were ready to sign. We only had to settle on child support. That is where everything went sour. He then decided that he wanted the kids 50/50. All of a sudden he wants to be a more involved dad but leave me all medical issues and appointments. I told him he could come and get the girls on the Sunday when I have the girls for the whole weekend but he's yet to come. The reason ranges from he is at his buddies cottage to my lawyer recommended I don't come.
My offer is to buy the house as if we would sell it deduct all the normal fees that would be encountered anyways. He's refusing to deduct the agent fees. As well I'm offering a schedule of 35/65 with a review after 1 year to increase if the girls are doing good. I also offered CS of $700 for both kids. He think my offer is absolutely ridiculous. Any thoughts???
My psychotherapist has met him once for a couple therapy and she is sure he is a narcissist. Anyone has a good lawyer to recommend to me?
I've been married for 7 years together for 10 years. We have 2 little girls 3 and 5. He has been having affairs throughout our relationship (I know of 3) and decided to leave in November. He was ready to leave me the kids at a 30/70 split as long as he didn't have to pay child support. We went to mediation and we were ready to sign. We only had to settle on child support. That is where everything went sour. He then decided that he wanted the kids 50/50. All of a sudden he wants to be a more involved dad but leave me all medical issues and appointments. I told him he could come and get the girls on the Sunday when I have the girls for the whole weekend but he's yet to come. The reason ranges from he is at his buddies cottage to my lawyer recommended I don't come.
My offer is to buy the house as if we would sell it deduct all the normal fees that would be encountered anyways. He's refusing to deduct the agent fees. As well I'm offering a schedule of 35/65 with a review after 1 year to increase if the girls are doing good. I also offered CS of $700 for both kids. He think my offer is absolutely ridiculous. Any thoughts???
My psychotherapist has met him once for a couple therapy and she is sure he is a narcissist. Anyone has a good lawyer to recommend to me?
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