I have 3 children, 21, 18 & 13. The 21 & 18 yr old live with me and the 13yr old lives with Dad. I have just been notified that someone has reported me to Child protection and the reason is that my 18yr old is a bad influence(unsure what influence it could be as he came from living with his Dad just 8 weeks ago and I have only had my 13yr old a total of 8 days in that 8 weeks) on my 13yr old - the social worker is coming next week to interview myself and my 18yr old.
I cannot for certain say who made the report but I have my suspicions that it could be my x. We have been fighting for some weeks now over registering our 13yr old in an activity that falls on my time(our agreement states he is not allowed to with out my consent). I am not in agreement and he has gone ahead and done it without consent and is demanding 50% of all costs. I will not pay. He has also posted on a social media website things about me(he is careful not to use my name, but his friends know who is talking about) and has also accused me of being a DBM. I seriously take offence to the DBM as, for the past 7yrs, I have never missed a CS payment and I have voluntarily increased CS according to the guidelines. My lawyer says she wished she had more clients like myself.
What I would like to know is has anyone gone through this and what should I expect. I cannot believe that someone has put my 2 children in this postion, it is breaking my heart!!
I cannot for certain say who made the report but I have my suspicions that it could be my x. We have been fighting for some weeks now over registering our 13yr old in an activity that falls on my time(our agreement states he is not allowed to with out my consent). I am not in agreement and he has gone ahead and done it without consent and is demanding 50% of all costs. I will not pay. He has also posted on a social media website things about me(he is careful not to use my name, but his friends know who is talking about) and has also accused me of being a DBM. I seriously take offence to the DBM as, for the past 7yrs, I have never missed a CS payment and I have voluntarily increased CS according to the guidelines. My lawyer says she wished she had more clients like myself.
What I would like to know is has anyone gone through this and what should I expect. I cannot believe that someone has put my 2 children in this postion, it is breaking my heart!!
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