We have been working together to come to an Agreement specifically in regards to Custody, Access and Support.
There are 2 children, we were married 8 years and separated (but living in the same house) for 1 year. We finally agreed to shared custody with table offset amount.
Then she says that she wants spousal support and I'm floored, considering she's professionally employed, never a stay at home mom, employed the entire duration of our marriage, healthy, no real need, just asking because she thinks she can get. So what I wondering:
1. If the incomes are $74,000 / $107,500 and I'm paying table offset Child Support. Is Spousal Support likely or even reasonable?
2. If so, how would the amount be determined? I didn't see a table calculation like the one for Child Support?
3. Again if so, how long would any amount be payable for considering 8 year marriage?
4. If Spousal Support becomes a contentious issue - should I just remove the waiver clauses from the agreement and leave it to the stuff we do agree on i.e. Child Custody, Access, and Support. And say SS not within scope of this agreement to be determined later?
5. Separate comment - in a shared 50 / 50 custody arrangement she wants me to state that "Primary Residence" is with her. Considering custody is 50 / 50 I don't understand why she is adamate about this wording being include. Can anyone tell me what her angle is???
Thanks in advance for any insight!
There are 2 children, we were married 8 years and separated (but living in the same house) for 1 year. We finally agreed to shared custody with table offset amount.
Then she says that she wants spousal support and I'm floored, considering she's professionally employed, never a stay at home mom, employed the entire duration of our marriage, healthy, no real need, just asking because she thinks she can get. So what I wondering:
1. If the incomes are $74,000 / $107,500 and I'm paying table offset Child Support. Is Spousal Support likely or even reasonable?
2. If so, how would the amount be determined? I didn't see a table calculation like the one for Child Support?
3. Again if so, how long would any amount be payable for considering 8 year marriage?
4. If Spousal Support becomes a contentious issue - should I just remove the waiver clauses from the agreement and leave it to the stuff we do agree on i.e. Child Custody, Access, and Support. And say SS not within scope of this agreement to be determined later?
5. Separate comment - in a shared 50 / 50 custody arrangement she wants me to state that "Primary Residence" is with her. Considering custody is 50 / 50 I don't understand why she is adamate about this wording being include. Can anyone tell me what her angle is???
Thanks in advance for any insight!
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