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Old 08-30-2018, 12:33 PM
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Good luck! We have been through 2 of them.
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Old 08-30-2018, 12:41 PM
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Good luck! We have been through 2 of them.
Why 2, if you dont mind me asking?
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Old 08-30-2018, 12:43 PM
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We have been in court for 3+ years. The last one, completed last week was an update.
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Old 09-07-2018, 01:39 PM
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Yeah I hated having to go through the OCL process. Took us over 8 months, and another 4 months just to get the report. Hold the OCL rep accountable, mine kept complaining that she did other things apart OCL and had workload issues and so kept delaying our file and was constantly late to meetings and over an hour late to the home visit. F*&C*&* ridiculous . It all worked out in the end for me though. Thanks to my lawyer for helping me dispute the report and for being prepared to take the matter to trial and rip the OCL female biased lady a new one.
I think I may need your lawyer. I was provided a disclosure meeting with an OCL and clinician and apparently they didn't care about any of the information (13 pages) that were provided beforehand. I have spoken with the two parties that were interviewed over the 4.5 mths of "through" investigating and both parties said it was all very strange. The first party said they were contacted, they had to chase down the lawyer. Then the OCL lawyer called her back 3 mths later and the call MAYBE lasted 1.5mins and two simple questions. The second party states that they spoke to the OCL lawyer called from her car and during a very short conversation, the call was dropped. The lawyer never called back to finish it or get more information. When I provided to that party the things that were said on their behalf during the disclosure party, they responded saying that all of that information is false and was never said. They stated that they are very concerned about it because it would seem by them that the OCL lawyer and clinician already had their minds made up prior to even investigating.

When I brought this up with my lawyer, I said I wanted to cross -examin them in court and he said that the court/judge frowns upon "surprises" evidence and that what I have come across as information should be shared with the OCL so that they may provide a response or give them the opportunity to investigate further.

Apparently, there is no report that is filed to the court unless the applicant and respondent still aren't in agreement and go ahead to trial, then the clinician is put on the stand and a report is written for the court.

I don't want to provide my information to give them the opportunity to re-create (cover their asses) a report of different statements making it like myself and my lawyer mis-understood anything.

There apparently no appeal process or anything. I don't know what to do now.

My lawyer notified the OCL lawyer that I had some issues with the disclosure and that I had some information to share. Her response was less than trusting and the phrase that stands out to me the most is:

"When you get the chance to complete your synopsis, we will happily review what you have prepared to clarify any mis-stated facts."

MIS-STATED FACTS!!!!!! WTH?

Has anyone ever gone up against the OCL? Is it possible? Is there a process?

I need a pitbull lawyer, I just want this done fairly with ALL the correct facts.

I mean, they spoke about how I filed a hit and run on my car but they never mentioned or looked up that my ex had his driver's licence suspended and no passport allowed due to non compliance of child support payments across three provinces!

I call bullshit on "THOROUGH" investigation by the OCL and clinician.

Please help

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