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Old 11-23-2018, 09:51 PM
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I have a feeling that this is also a case of the ex finding something petty to use. Mostly because his case for sole and/or 50/50 is fading. Instead of being reasonable he is looking for everything possible to nitpick. Plus he is being egged on by his new partner who doesnt want his money going to anyone but her and her kids. This is such a stupid fight imo. I bet that for the most part, if the situation was that they were still married, he would not care what the School said and it would go in one ear and out the other. Why I think this is because mom 2 two has indicated that the ex didn’t care in the past but since he met his new partner who has kids and was being brought to court for not paying his cs, he suddenly cares. This is clearly as case of “my expenses have increased now that I share a home with another woman and her kids, Ill just go for 50/50 so I can save money”.


I love you!! Bingo. This is exactly what’s going on... and when the courts go away and dad goes to back to his usual uncaring self... the kids are the ones that suffer. They already see it now... actually they have always seen it... and stupidly I kept fighting to include him and he would be the dad they need.


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Old 11-23-2018, 09:55 PM
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^ I have this same issue with my ex. She makes demands/feels she has some right to just snap her fingers at me. It's best to not give into this crap and just ignore it.

it does really look good on you to be sharing information but not necessary because of the father's basically harassing of you (similar to my ex) and it is actually up to the father himself to be in regular contact with the school and teachers to know what's going on in the school. You should just ask the school to keep the father informed of the same things you are informed of.

We have a clause in our agreement that each parent is responsible for obtaining their own information from 3rd parties..schools..etc. This might be something helpful to you.


This is a great clause. When we get to the stage of an order I will definitely add this. Thank you!! I do feel I keep him informed. And when he asks for the same information I have already informed him on I ignore.

He asked about school progress . I sent progress reports two weeks ago...

So I’m not sure what else I can provide. He also asked for an update regarding our sons therapy yet I was ordered to give him consent to contact her (prior to this order he had met her once already and written emails to her). So again bogus claim he isn’t informed.

Thanks for the advice!! :-)


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Old 11-23-2018, 09:58 PM
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I agree with your Rockscan. I also think 50/50 should be default from the get go, but to wait 5 years then all of a sudden ask for sole and/or 50/50 is making these kids go through the trauma all over again, just because he now has a partner to play Mom. He made his decision 5 years ago to walk away kid free, custody and access was mutually agreed too.



Although I do not agree somewhat with the saving $$$, he lives in another town, his gas alone would be a huge expense in getting these kids to their activities and school in their home town. Not to mention food, shelter and clothing.


I love you too!! Glad you guys sees it my way... that is my biggest concern. Uprooting the kids and having them be retraumarized... they have never really recovered as dad is still causing them trauma. ;-(
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