Hello every one
I am kinda stuck. My depression is holding me at medium. I have been on disability for a while now. My ex, seemingly healthy is on welfare. The good thing is we haven't fought in a long time.
She uttered fear into the child. Fears her like the devil. He is going to junior high next year. Custody is 50/50.
Minding my own business and seeking best treatments I didn't pay attention when my ex said the child will go to JH in her area. That's some 25 km from where he went to school to grade 6 and where he was born.
Nah, I disagree. The bitch was only playing me by being nice and I know that. I just let it be until...….
Yesterday we had a meeting with the principal. Too many absences. Whose fault? She won't admit. She said she does her best the kid gets to school. The principal asked is the kid going to JH with his friends from KG to grade 6. She said NOOOO he is going in her area with his nephew. I didn't say a word.
But I will soon and all the stones will start rolling again. But I don't know how to tell her. I was quiet for 2 years and now I have to say "No, the child continues in his school zone". But she will say why didn't you say that before why now?
I feel as I need an excuse to break a deal that never happened.
That is where I need help. How do I tell her that I want the kid to go to JH in my area. When I ask the child he says he wants to go where his friends go. They go to school "B" which is even out of my school zone but still he went there for 7 years. If he goes to her school, school "F" he knows nobody but his cousin who is just 1 grade up.
I do not like to break promises but I never said that I agree I just noded once. However I still need to answer "why now, you lied and what not".
Any advice on this one?
I am kinda stuck. My depression is holding me at medium. I have been on disability for a while now. My ex, seemingly healthy is on welfare. The good thing is we haven't fought in a long time.
She uttered fear into the child. Fears her like the devil. He is going to junior high next year. Custody is 50/50.
Minding my own business and seeking best treatments I didn't pay attention when my ex said the child will go to JH in her area. That's some 25 km from where he went to school to grade 6 and where he was born.
Nah, I disagree. The bitch was only playing me by being nice and I know that. I just let it be until...….
Yesterday we had a meeting with the principal. Too many absences. Whose fault? She won't admit. She said she does her best the kid gets to school. The principal asked is the kid going to JH with his friends from KG to grade 6. She said NOOOO he is going in her area with his nephew. I didn't say a word.
But I will soon and all the stones will start rolling again. But I don't know how to tell her. I was quiet for 2 years and now I have to say "No, the child continues in his school zone". But she will say why didn't you say that before why now?
I feel as I need an excuse to break a deal that never happened.
That is where I need help. How do I tell her that I want the kid to go to JH in my area. When I ask the child he says he wants to go where his friends go. They go to school "B" which is even out of my school zone but still he went there for 7 years. If he goes to her school, school "F" he knows nobody but his cousin who is just 1 grade up.
I do not like to break promises but I never said that I agree I just noded once. However I still need to answer "why now, you lied and what not".
Any advice on this one?
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