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    Shared custody, but it wasn't my weekend, so we had a special transfer yesterday morning for father's day, and the ex turned it into a big fight.

    No real point to this message, not looking for advice, it just makes me sad. I wish I could have had a nice conflict-free day with the kids. She is not totally to blame, I could have just de-escalated it by giving in to her last minute demands, but either way her actions were designed to hurt me.

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    I picked a flower for myself from my house while i was waiting for my kids which I got kicked out of (exclusive possession) my ex started screaming at me not to pick flowers from her property (I have an agreement to buyout the house in a few months) - I was also always that landscaped etc... and then she screamed at me because i never bought her flowers

    My ex is a good ex, she ticks all the "ex" boxes

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    • #3
      My ex is reasonable most of the time when it comes to custody matters, which made this a bit of a surprise. She tends to value her own interests very highly, which generally means avoiding a custody fight when it is unnecessary (since she won't get any money out of it).

      I probably should have just de-escalated, she wanted the fight and I gave her what she wanted. I just wish I knew why she wanted to fight, there's probably an angle that I don't know yet, I'll find out shortly, I always do . She's a lot less sneaky than she thinks she is...

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      • #4
        file a vary parenting time statement/claim you get fathers day weekend she gets mothers day weekend, on years there is a schedule collision the weekends are swapped - maybe that will work for you.
        best of luck,
        pokeman

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