thank u for keeping me grounded, i want to get a dog, need company and a need to go out
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Once you have a separation or divorce agreement, he has no grounds to contest your will (as equalization would be a factor in a divorce/separation). Doesn't mean he can't TRY, just means it's unlikely he'd succeed. You run this risk regardless.
You were likely advised to go directly to divorce as it falls under the Federal Divorce Act, which takes priority and precedence over the Provincial "family law" acts. A divorce on the grounds of 1 year separation is the fastest, cheapest and easiest way to go.
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Originally posted by dinkyface View PostRanting feels good - it can be useful stress relief - we all understand that. So keep on ranting here in this thread. Then when you have some specific questions, start another thread.
But... realize that to get this sorted out you will need to start separating the rational/thinking part of this process from the emotional/revenge/anger/bitterness part. The better you can do this, the faster and cheaper the process will be.
You will have a lot of learning to do - don't just put yourself at the mercy of a lawyer and believe they will take care of you. There are a few good books on divorce that have been recommended here - hopefully some members will post them again for you. You can also go to The Supporting Families Experiencing Separation and Divorce Initiative - About Us (see the links on the left) for some basic info.
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You immediately need to clarify the definition of your matrimonial home. Is it the one you had, or the one you built. I doubt anyone here can answer that question.
Did he reside in your original house after marriage? You need to retain a lawyer immediately and confirm your definitions. Stop wasting your time here.
Any will you had before your marriage is void. You do need to prepare and sign a new will and new attorneys. Gifting him a nominal amount is pointless, he could still argue a 50% interest in your estate, and under the fla he is entitled to it.Start a discussion, not a fire. Post with kindness.
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