I have yet another question...
My son is turning 12 next weekend. My daughter also has a cheerleading competition the same day at wonderland. We live about 45 minutes from Wonderland. I sent my ex an email at the beginning of the month with details of the comp, the form for discounted tickets ($34) and asked if she is planning on attending so I can plan the birthday and she hasn't answered.
The court order states that the kids will be allowed to participate in all events associated with extra curricular activities, my ex is entitled to 4 hours access to my son on his birthday and I will inform her a week prior about birthday dinner reservations so she may attend.
My son of course wants to spend the day at wonderland since we will be there anyways. He wants to eat dinner at the buffet there (a treat as we have never eaten there) and really doesn't want to have to leave with his mom. He is turning 12. His mom has told him she won't be coming but has not told me yet.
So my question is, she is entitled to the time but will anything happen if he refused to leave? (He has told me that's his plan), will I look unreasonable if I offered for him to stay the Friday night and pick him up Saturday morning before we leave? Or if I told her she had to pick him up and he refused to go? I mean I can't help that our daughters comp falls on his birthday.
My son is turning 12 next weekend. My daughter also has a cheerleading competition the same day at wonderland. We live about 45 minutes from Wonderland. I sent my ex an email at the beginning of the month with details of the comp, the form for discounted tickets ($34) and asked if she is planning on attending so I can plan the birthday and she hasn't answered.
The court order states that the kids will be allowed to participate in all events associated with extra curricular activities, my ex is entitled to 4 hours access to my son on his birthday and I will inform her a week prior about birthday dinner reservations so she may attend.
My son of course wants to spend the day at wonderland since we will be there anyways. He wants to eat dinner at the buffet there (a treat as we have never eaten there) and really doesn't want to have to leave with his mom. He is turning 12. His mom has told him she won't be coming but has not told me yet.
So my question is, she is entitled to the time but will anything happen if he refused to leave? (He has told me that's his plan), will I look unreasonable if I offered for him to stay the Friday night and pick him up Saturday morning before we leave? Or if I told her she had to pick him up and he refused to go? I mean I can't help that our daughters comp falls on his birthday.
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