Hi everyone. This is my first post to this site though I've been reading for the past few months. I added my situation to another post but think that perhaps a new post is needed.
Here is my situation. Ex and I separated last autumn with him moving out into his newly bought house Jan 8. His gf move in that week. (So about 9 weeks ago)
We have a three year daughter and have 50/50 access on a 2/2/3 schedule with pick up/drop off at daycare. He has just asked if he could add his gf to the pick/drop off list at the daycare.
I presently only know her first name and that she sells real estate. I stated to him that I would like to know more about his gf, maybe meet her, learn her last name before I would feel comfortable having her on the list.
I understand that giving her access will allow ex to work longer hours at work and not have to rush to daycare. The flipside of course is that he may just work long hours and have his gf babysit his daughter.
Do I have any legal grounds to deny her from picking up my daughter or am i just being b1tchy about it? If this woman is going to stay around then I want everything to work out, but right now I feel like I know little about her and their relationship is new.
Should I ask to meet her or just ask for a last name and a picture?
Looking forward to your replies. Friends and family have differing opinions about all this and I just want to do what is right and safe for my three year old. I just want to make sure that due diligance is done and that I am looking out for the best interests of my child.
Here is my situation. Ex and I separated last autumn with him moving out into his newly bought house Jan 8. His gf move in that week. (So about 9 weeks ago)
We have a three year daughter and have 50/50 access on a 2/2/3 schedule with pick up/drop off at daycare. He has just asked if he could add his gf to the pick/drop off list at the daycare.
I presently only know her first name and that she sells real estate. I stated to him that I would like to know more about his gf, maybe meet her, learn her last name before I would feel comfortable having her on the list.
I understand that giving her access will allow ex to work longer hours at work and not have to rush to daycare. The flipside of course is that he may just work long hours and have his gf babysit his daughter.
Do I have any legal grounds to deny her from picking up my daughter or am i just being b1tchy about it? If this woman is going to stay around then I want everything to work out, but right now I feel like I know little about her and their relationship is new.
Should I ask to meet her or just ask for a last name and a picture?
Looking forward to your replies. Friends and family have differing opinions about all this and I just want to do what is right and safe for my three year old. I just want to make sure that due diligance is done and that I am looking out for the best interests of my child.
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