I wanted shared
When I first separated from my ex I asked for shared. When I received the first communication from ex's lawyer it stated my ex was willing to give me sole. I was confused.....so my lawyer sent off a letter asking why sole? My ex called me and explained it would be cheaper for him if I had sole....I was so mad at first and then realized it is a lot cheaper for him now. I wish I told tell my kids his money came before them...I will never tell them that...I could never hurt them that way. I wish they had a father who wanted shared.
Way to go for all the Dads who put the kids before money. I now have child support and he has visits whenever he wants...if the kids will go...sometimes they don't feel like going. He also asks me to send money along with the visits so he can take them places. I do send $20.00 each when they visit him just so they don't have to sit at his place with nothing to do all weekend.
So $60.00 that I send he uses for movies, pizza and video games. The kids know I send the money. They still love their Dad and I am grateful that they do.
When I first separated from my ex I asked for shared. When I received the first communication from ex's lawyer it stated my ex was willing to give me sole. I was confused.....so my lawyer sent off a letter asking why sole? My ex called me and explained it would be cheaper for him if I had sole....I was so mad at first and then realized it is a lot cheaper for him now. I wish I told tell my kids his money came before them...I will never tell them that...I could never hurt them that way. I wish they had a father who wanted shared.
Way to go for all the Dads who put the kids before money. I now have child support and he has visits whenever he wants...if the kids will go...sometimes they don't feel like going. He also asks me to send money along with the visits so he can take them places. I do send $20.00 each when they visit him just so they don't have to sit at his place with nothing to do all weekend.
So $60.00 that I send he uses for movies, pizza and video games. The kids know I send the money. They still love their Dad and I am grateful that they do.
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