Hello all,
I really need some direction with respect to filing a motion to change. I tried contacting a Paralegal (less expensive than a Lawyer) and learned that Paralegals are not licensed to go into Family Court in the Province of Ontario.
I have had several material changes in circumstance since the time of the order (Sept 2011). These can all be easily backed up with 3rd party documentation (Doctor/Bank etc).
The CS/SS order only got registered with the F.R.O., in JUNE 2012!!! (Not my doing). There has to date been only ONE pymt sent in by my ex to FRO. It was to be direct deposited (had all the paperwork submitted) and FRO decided to MAIL it to me! That was 7 days ago. I still have not rec'd it. New Arrears are now around 4k - and a "letter" has been issued for my ex to submit a VAPS (Voluntary Arrears Pymt Schedule). Despite his ability to pay the proper, full amount, he sent FRO the same amount he'd been previously sending to me (several hundred dollars "short"). Not 3 days later he was off on a one-week vacation at easily one of Canada's most expensive vacation resorts. And yes, I have proof of that as well. Way to Go. I will be sending FRO the vacation itinerary (our son is w/him) so that they will consider insisting on a lump sum pymt of the new arrears.
I am going to hell in a handbasket (financially). I'd like to get the costs order enforced (by fro). He owes my lawyer 15k which he was ordered to pay within 6 months and he has not. Again, despite his "ability" to pay it. He has no assets in his name (all in his wife's) but he does own/run a moderately successful business - and his name IS on that. I really need help wrt the MTC. Where do I begin? Duty Counsel @my Court House (or Flic) are next to useless. Comments? Suggestions? A lifeline of any kind?
I need: the Costs order enforced, I'd like section 7 expenses added to the order, a life insurance policy to secure the CS and SS (which is based on 5 years), and to change the terms for which he was given to pay old arrears (almost 30k) @$200/month. Based on his track record of non compliance, and his lifestyle (there is a huge disparity between mine and his) I feel those $200 payments should be increased/accelerated. It gives me and my son a better chance of "recovering" from the financial ruin. Thank-you for any advice. ** Tayken, if you see this, please get in touch - I'm sure you could point me in the right direction (forms/etc). I have the issues narrowed down, and can back all of it up.
I really need some direction with respect to filing a motion to change. I tried contacting a Paralegal (less expensive than a Lawyer) and learned that Paralegals are not licensed to go into Family Court in the Province of Ontario.
I have had several material changes in circumstance since the time of the order (Sept 2011). These can all be easily backed up with 3rd party documentation (Doctor/Bank etc).
The CS/SS order only got registered with the F.R.O., in JUNE 2012!!! (Not my doing). There has to date been only ONE pymt sent in by my ex to FRO. It was to be direct deposited (had all the paperwork submitted) and FRO decided to MAIL it to me! That was 7 days ago. I still have not rec'd it. New Arrears are now around 4k - and a "letter" has been issued for my ex to submit a VAPS (Voluntary Arrears Pymt Schedule). Despite his ability to pay the proper, full amount, he sent FRO the same amount he'd been previously sending to me (several hundred dollars "short"). Not 3 days later he was off on a one-week vacation at easily one of Canada's most expensive vacation resorts. And yes, I have proof of that as well. Way to Go. I will be sending FRO the vacation itinerary (our son is w/him) so that they will consider insisting on a lump sum pymt of the new arrears.
I am going to hell in a handbasket (financially). I'd like to get the costs order enforced (by fro). He owes my lawyer 15k which he was ordered to pay within 6 months and he has not. Again, despite his "ability" to pay it. He has no assets in his name (all in his wife's) but he does own/run a moderately successful business - and his name IS on that. I really need help wrt the MTC. Where do I begin? Duty Counsel @my Court House (or Flic) are next to useless. Comments? Suggestions? A lifeline of any kind?
I need: the Costs order enforced, I'd like section 7 expenses added to the order, a life insurance policy to secure the CS and SS (which is based on 5 years), and to change the terms for which he was given to pay old arrears (almost 30k) @$200/month. Based on his track record of non compliance, and his lifestyle (there is a huge disparity between mine and his) I feel those $200 payments should be increased/accelerated. It gives me and my son a better chance of "recovering" from the financial ruin. Thank-you for any advice. ** Tayken, if you see this, please get in touch - I'm sure you could point me in the right direction (forms/etc). I have the issues narrowed down, and can back all of it up.
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