Hello, my husband (the "wallet") and I are meeting with a new lawyer in a couple of weeks to get some questions answered. We had inexperienced counsel when the ex brought a motion to vary last time, and want to be prepared when she comes swinging again for post-secondary for my stepson. Our new lawyer has at least 15 years experience in family law, and is costing us double what we paid. We were originally advised that we didn't "need" to ask for the ex's income tax returns, didn't "need" proof of stepson's enrollment in school, etc. I think he did us more harm than good!
What types of things should we be asking? Any "heads up" matters that we should be aware of?
For you men out there going through this...why does my husband seem to shove his head in the sand? Why won't he deal with this? It seems I'm the one doing all the research on the internet, and it's caused alot of stress, heartache and fights between us. Am I the only one who cares about OUR young children? Sometimes it seems that way. If it wasn't for me finding this lawyer, he'd have waited til she served him again. I think it's important to document every phone call, email, etc, and keep track of how many visits his son misses.
TIA!
What types of things should we be asking? Any "heads up" matters that we should be aware of?
For you men out there going through this...why does my husband seem to shove his head in the sand? Why won't he deal with this? It seems I'm the one doing all the research on the internet, and it's caused alot of stress, heartache and fights between us. Am I the only one who cares about OUR young children? Sometimes it seems that way. If it wasn't for me finding this lawyer, he'd have waited til she served him again. I think it's important to document every phone call, email, etc, and keep track of how many visits his son misses.
TIA!
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