Okay, this is more of a vent than anything....but, I would be interested to know how this would make others feel.
Child is 11, father hasn't bothered to use access since she was 9. Rarely calls, no phone call on birthday, no cards, no Christmas cards or anything, and has now left the country.
Child comes home today, she says her teacher informed her that her dad called the school today. She doesn't know why or what was said. It's bothering her because he hasn't bothered to even call her since he left the country a few months ago, and never bothered to see her
Father has a history of stalking, intrusive behaviours with me. He's been caught peeping in windows, listening to phone calls, going through a phone to find out who's calling, etc, etc. (and this behavior was while he was using access .... a few years ago, before he remarried). Our relationship was about control and accusations, which didn't cease after separation.
This isn't the first time that he's called the school. He's also called the dentist to ensure she's going for her check-ups as well.
Would this behavior bother anyone else? Or am I hyper-sensitive considering all the intrusive behavior of the past that I've endured?
Child is 11, father hasn't bothered to use access since she was 9. Rarely calls, no phone call on birthday, no cards, no Christmas cards or anything, and has now left the country.
Child comes home today, she says her teacher informed her that her dad called the school today. She doesn't know why or what was said. It's bothering her because he hasn't bothered to even call her since he left the country a few months ago, and never bothered to see her
Father has a history of stalking, intrusive behaviours with me. He's been caught peeping in windows, listening to phone calls, going through a phone to find out who's calling, etc, etc. (and this behavior was while he was using access .... a few years ago, before he remarried). Our relationship was about control and accusations, which didn't cease after separation.
This isn't the first time that he's called the school. He's also called the dentist to ensure she's going for her check-ups as well.
Would this behavior bother anyone else? Or am I hyper-sensitive considering all the intrusive behavior of the past that I've endured?
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