So my ex and agreed early on that we would cut down the amount we use our sitter to save money.
This involves her dropping the kids off to me in the morning which is fine.
The only concern she had was on PD days we would have no care. We agreed that I would arrange care with my mom on all pd days.
This Friday is a pd day. I have arranged for the kids to go to my moms. This morning she started going on about how she will be here to pick the kids up on Friday at 3:00. I told her that was not possible. I work till 4 and my mom works until 5:30. I told her she could go pick them up at my moms/my grandmothers (They live together in Mississauga). She said that was unacceptable.
I received the following email after not answering her 12 phone calls.
Here is my planned response.
Suggestions.
This involves her dropping the kids off to me in the morning which is fine.
The only concern she had was on PD days we would have no care. We agreed that I would arrange care with my mom on all pd days.
This Friday is a pd day. I have arranged for the kids to go to my moms. This morning she started going on about how she will be here to pick the kids up on Friday at 3:00. I told her that was not possible. I work till 4 and my mom works until 5:30. I told her she could go pick them up at my moms/my grandmothers (They live together in Mississauga). She said that was unacceptable.
I received the following email after not answering her 12 phone calls.
Dear xxxxxxxxx
I am finsished working at 2:30 on friday I pick the children up no later then 3:30 from school on my access days. Driving to your mothers work is not an acceptable location to pick the children up on my access day. You took it apon yourself to let our babysitter go! Leaving PD days your responsibillty to organize children care. I am not required to sit around and wait at your convinience to pick up our children for my access weekend. You stated that if your mother bring them to your house they will not be available until 7 pm. on friday. This time is not acceptable. I will be at your house by 2:45pm. to pick up the children. If the children are not there you are responsible to bring them to me in orangeville! If you are unable to do so then you are responsible to keep them for the night. I will then pick them up from hockey on saturday morning. <babysitter> is not an option for child care on PD days. She has too many children in her care to provide safe child care for our children. She doesn't take any more children on PD days you were aware of this when you made the decision to provide child care on PD days. So callling her like you suggested is not an option. Have a nice day!
Kind regards,
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I am finsished working at 2:30 on friday I pick the children up no later then 3:30 from school on my access days. Driving to your mothers work is not an acceptable location to pick the children up on my access day. You took it apon yourself to let our babysitter go! Leaving PD days your responsibillty to organize children care. I am not required to sit around and wait at your convinience to pick up our children for my access weekend. You stated that if your mother bring them to your house they will not be available until 7 pm. on friday. This time is not acceptable. I will be at your house by 2:45pm. to pick up the children. If the children are not there you are responsible to bring them to me in orangeville! If you are unable to do so then you are responsible to keep them for the night. I will then pick them up from hockey on saturday morning. <babysitter> is not an option for child care on PD days. She has too many children in her care to provide safe child care for our children. She doesn't take any more children on PD days you were aware of this when you made the decision to provide child care on PD days. So callling her like you suggested is not an option. Have a nice day!
Kind regards,
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Dear XXXXXXX,
As agreed I have arranged childcare for our children on this Friday's PD Day.
Just to clarify, in your email you stated my Mom's work, that is not accurate the kids will be at XXXXX <my grandmothers> the whole day and are not going to work with my mom.
I'm sorry you do not like my chosen childcare provider but it really is our only option. So you have three options
1. Pick the kids up at XXXXXX <my grandmothers> after you are done work in Mississauga.
2. Wait for my Mom to bring them to my house after she gets off work.
3. Leave them with my Mom for the night as I have to Ref on Friday night.
Please let me know which you have chosen so I can inform them of your intentions.
Thanks
Best Dad Ever.
As agreed I have arranged childcare for our children on this Friday's PD Day.
Just to clarify, in your email you stated my Mom's work, that is not accurate the kids will be at XXXXX <my grandmothers> the whole day and are not going to work with my mom.
I'm sorry you do not like my chosen childcare provider but it really is our only option. So you have three options
1. Pick the kids up at XXXXXX <my grandmothers> after you are done work in Mississauga.
2. Wait for my Mom to bring them to my house after she gets off work.
3. Leave them with my Mom for the night as I have to Ref on Friday night.
Please let me know which you have chosen so I can inform them of your intentions.
Thanks
Best Dad Ever.
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