Recently working with a separation agreement. Starting to think it wasn’t specific enough. We have a joyful toddler who loves both parents equally.
For most parts, pickups and drop offs are at school. Ex insists that all pickups and drop offs not at school be done at their place. I am constantly losing 30 minutes of quality time due to travel time because they are too lazy to reciprocate good gestures.
Moreover, when I arrive at exes, our child wants to show ex new toy or garment (or whatever being that they are happy) and ex goes out of way to have exchange extremely fast, non-cordial and robotic. My view is that there is no harm in being cordial rather than “racing” the exchange where the kid is asking why they are being rushed into the door.
Maybe exchanges should be more equally distributed between who is doing the drop offs as it’s always me? Any advice would help!
For most parts, pickups and drop offs are at school. Ex insists that all pickups and drop offs not at school be done at their place. I am constantly losing 30 minutes of quality time due to travel time because they are too lazy to reciprocate good gestures.
Moreover, when I arrive at exes, our child wants to show ex new toy or garment (or whatever being that they are happy) and ex goes out of way to have exchange extremely fast, non-cordial and robotic. My view is that there is no harm in being cordial rather than “racing” the exchange where the kid is asking why they are being rushed into the door.
Maybe exchanges should be more equally distributed between who is doing the drop offs as it’s always me? Any advice would help!
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