I am approaching my child's 18th birthday, the mother specifically told me not to ask to have payments adjusted for 16 years (she is VERY well off). Her case worker somewhere sent me income statement requests 2 times - which I ignored.
I understand I have to somehow have her agree to end the support, but i'm afraid they are going to try to come after me for arrears in some way.
Any advice here? I figure if they came after me -- it would END me financially. I'd lose my home, and my actual family would be homeless.
I've probably handled this poorly, but i'm trying to figure out how to end this where nobody gets hurt, but i'm afraid of what might happen if she somehow thinks that this could be some kind of financial windfall.
I understand I have to somehow have her agree to end the support, but i'm afraid they are going to try to come after me for arrears in some way.
Any advice here? I figure if they came after me -- it would END me financially. I'd lose my home, and my actual family would be homeless.
I've probably handled this poorly, but i'm trying to figure out how to end this where nobody gets hurt, but i'm afraid of what might happen if she somehow thinks that this could be some kind of financial windfall.
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